If he won’t pay then he doesn’t deserve to see them
June 18, 2014
Hi I have two kids with my ex bf we spilt up 2years ago as he try to hurt me.
His not paid a penny since they were born and now his asking to see them.
I don’t think so.
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EXCUSE ME!!!!! My ex husband is working and doesn’t pay a penny towards OUR child.. At the end of the day he is a DAD NOT a cash machine.. He has every right to see HIS children after all it takes 2 to make a baby… So he hurt YOU get over it.. My husband never supported me, thought more of his grown up children than OUR child, BUT I will NEVER never stop him from being a part of OUR daughters life.. YOU have no right to deny contact unless your children are at risk.. Do what I do and PROVIDE yourself for your children.. I do and get great satisfaction out of doing so..
i was about to say the dame thing..
so sik of mums thinkin dads r a cashpoint……..2nd families suffer for these leaches n their kids do without to keep the others in luxury………but i supose thats ok…….dont get me started
if you believe that then YOU DO NOT DESERVE THEM KIDS OR HIS MONEY !
I know the feeling on that one . My son had to miss out on his birthday party so my son dad ex can go on Holiday & clubbing. take the piss that 2rd family miss out .
What gives you the right to play god with your kids! Remember ” money can’t buy love “
I understand the frustration of not having ANY financial help with the child you BOTH made , but be the better parent ,your children will want to see their dad and it’s not their fault he doesn’t contribute..as much as u probably do for them now without the dads help they won’t like u for it when they are older if u prevent them seeing their dad
So you are selfish then, it doesnt matter about you that child is apart of both of you get your head out your a**e & sort it out because your not hurting the father your damaging your child! Idiot!
thoses poor kids not even allowed to see there dad because there mother wants money how selfish how about let him see the kids and let him have them over night you will get a break and save money but you dont see it like that all about the money so selfish
Troll lol lol lol lol… Why would you post that on here for any other reason than to troll? I’ve not seen my daughter for 2 years now, still pay my maintenance but the courts aren’t one bit interested in making a 14 year old see their father, even if he’s got an unblemished past and has seen her for 12 years every fortnight doing a 400 mile trip to do so.
People like this make me fuckin sick, I do hope she gets a debilitating disease.
I pay the full maintenance for my daughter ever month without fail …. always on time and ive not been allowed to see or speak to my princess for over 3 years
and her mum knows I can do nothing about it and knows the money will keep coming as I am always gonna pay no matter what – she is my daughter what else would I do
the law is a piece of ass to fathers who want to be involved but are used solely as a cashpoint
And so the vicious circle begins you stop contact he stops money until 1 of you become the adult and put your past behind you and your children’s thoughts and feelings 1st! Just remember your children will remember everything that happens and everything that is said from there childhood, don’t let them turn out bitter and angry show them there’s more to life then that!
What a terrible thing to say “I do hope she gets a debilitating disease”! A complete evil statement and a kick in the teeth for adults and children that have got a debilitating disease! Shame on you 🙁
so basically you have to say to your child i’m sorry dad can’t give any pocket money cause his new bit of skirt’s kids need stuff but he still loves you I THINK NOT
Some well said statements here!! The CSA open up a whole can of worms and shallow people shouldnt have children in the first place. If a couple split up and the resident parent gets half of what the non resident parent owns. The CSA want more now thats just greed.
Its not all about money is it the route of all evil. Its about the children. Dont use them as pawns, now that should be a crime.
Get rid of the CSA end of
Well said Dean Preston! Parents should be adult enough to sort their own lives out, its always the poor kids who suffer whilst some parents play “he said, she said”!
Doesn’t deserve to see his child/children…
This mindset is what’s wrong with the csa and what seems to be a majority of pwc …
What do the children deserve ? That’s what’s important
If you do not pay for a train ticket and you are convicted in court for not having bought one. You are a criminal and with that goes a criminal record!!!! But if a non resident parent doesn’t want to stand up to his responsibility towards their children they don’t have to.. No conviction … Liability orders as long as your arm but that’s ok … No law against not supporting their children…They get patted on the back by the Csa hell site and the parent with care is a TROLL. Nice!!!
It’s not about not wanting to pay for our children it’s the fact that we pay to much and the fact that the mum doesn’t need to put her hand in her pocket because the so called NRP ( I hate that word ) pats for everything
Makes me laugh what makes the mum have rights to stop a dad from seeing his child it annoys me
I wouldn’t even mind but when the dad does pay CSA the mum still claims he doesn’t pay anything
Be interesting to understand what non resident parents find acceptable in way of maintenance.
Having brought up my 3 boys all 6ft4/5 on my own with an ex who only saw them when it suited and earns approximately 20,000 A MONTH give or take the odd pence…. I don’t get a penny because he works for himself. Have your child half of the week. Love them treat them and take them to school then you only have to pay half and just be interesting to see if you understand how much it takes not just financially to being up just 1 child 🙁
if they won`t let you see your child/children why sould we pay.
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there his kids and its not up to you to dictate if he sees them….they are both your kids…he still has a right to see them, just because YOU say he hurt you ???
Bet you still expect his money tho with help from the vermin CSA ?
gonk
F..k Off Julie Dawn Archer…you clue less bi….sorry…so and so….nrps as a whole a screwed by CSA and pwc’s
Gonk
Lol u dumb
He will get to see hes wether you like or not
Its stuiped people like you which cause problem s
Lets take your kids away until u pay see how feels
Bloody bitter chavs