CSA are going to make me homeless

July 1, 2015

the csa are taking £500 a month out of my wages i have a new partner now and have been with her for 7 years we have 4 children the csa are on the verge of making me and my family homeless i just cannot afford to pay this amount but the csa are not bothered and because i have arrears they have taken me to court and put a claim against my house if i were to miss a payment they would force the sale of my house i dont no wat else to do is there any way of help with these blood sucking animals.


27 Responses to “CSA are going to make me homeless”

  1. Neil Staniland on July 1st, 2015 4:11 pm

    Put the mortgage in your Mrs name that way it’s not yours so can’t touch it!

  2. Mark Perkins on July 1st, 2015 4:16 pm

    Go self employed if you can or go part time and ask to be reassessed

  3. Chris Hall on July 1st, 2015 4:24 pm

    Go on the sick then ask to be reassessed other than that you in the shit cos the csa don’t give a shit about you

  4. Natalie Russell on July 1st, 2015 5:13 pm

    Doesn’t he have a responsibility to pay for his child tho? I don’t agree that they should threaten to take his house but he does have a duty to that child ……..

  5. Neil Staniland on July 1st, 2015 5:18 pm

    Yes he doe’s Natalie I agree however the CSA are complete fuckwits who would take the clothes off your back given half the chance. They make up arreas and just take what they like when they like. Yes I’m a believer in father’s should provide but the CSA have and continue to leave absent parents without a pot to piss in!!! It should be maintaince not punishment!

  6. Natalie Russell on July 1st, 2015 5:19 pm

    That’s what I was trying to say, it’s a shame parents can’t think about their kids and work something out x

  7. Neil Staniland on July 1st, 2015 5:23 pm

    Unfortunately SOME parents with custody refuse to come to a sensible agreement because there more concerned with financially ruining there ex by going to the CSA. the CSA should only be used as a last resort but them bastards contact the parent with custody and encourage them to go though them because the CSA are a profit making company.

  8. Thomas Finlay on July 1st, 2015 8:58 pm

    Set up your own ltd company mate if you can and go self employed a good accountant will give you advice, but if you have a duty to provide for your kid then I would but providing for your kid doesn’t mean giving your hard earned cash to the ex even though they like to think it’s that way

  9. Author Chris Jones on July 1st, 2015 11:50 pm

    Yes dad’s should pay but 500 pm for 1 child ?
    Please let’s be realistic since wen did the government pay 125pw for a child in CB?
    Let NRPs live let them support their family and be able to pay their way Ffs before being rapped to a point he can’t live. Imagine saying to his kids sorry you can’t have treats cos ur half brother/sister gets it. Imagine the end results wen the kids are older again something the csa don’t care about is half brothers n sisters

  10. Author Chris Jones on July 1st, 2015 11:51 pm

    Imagine ur the new partner of an nrp and you can’t afford to live or go out or have treats cos his ex wife gets 500pm of his wage.

  11. Richie Walton on July 2nd, 2015 12:22 am

    Am I right in saying that my kids are 50% mine aswell as hers? So everything should be split down the middle? Well how come my ex has never provided a single penny towards our children as she has never had a job yet I’m stuck paying 550 a month now as she has stopped contact because she thinks I should only see my kids 2 nights a week instead of the 3 nights that both me and my kids want? Equal rights yeah? Don’t make me laugh

  12. Richie Walton on July 2nd, 2015 12:43 am

    I’m just a fucking cash cow that’s ripe for milking because I want to better myself and try do something with my life. Makes me sick

  13. Gonk on July 2nd, 2015 10:33 am

    Read these kinda stories so often on this site and it makes my blood boil that these blood sucking bottom dwelling pond life can be allowed to destroy a parent like this, financially, emotionally, physically.
    It’s disgusting and see why these bastards are hated so much
    @natalie, his duty to the child…..at what cost Natalie?, losing his house, his family, his job, his dignity. Agree, parents should support their kids but come on wtf, there has to be a fair balance for all and not just a cash load coming in every month for the pwc and fuck the nrp. And where does it leave a parent and child relationship when the parent is robbed blind and loses everything.
    No wander some fathers have so much hate for these people they want to burn the buildings they work in with them inside. How is this man expected to have ANY life with his family when he’s being rapped of so much income each month?
    I guess I should count mysel lucky, I’m only bled £300 a month for 1 child and that’s without arrears. Wander how long it will be before I get a call or letter telling me I have the famous GHOST AREARS lol, despite never missing a payment ever, and paying direct debit to the vermin. Ritchie, no mate, we are the fucking ATM machines for the ex, our kids are the cash cows

  14. Steve Mccarron on July 2nd, 2015 11:01 am

    the CSA is all about control and the states ownership of it’s people. Like parents being fined for taking their children on well deseved holidays. The UK is a nasty socially backward country, with nasty people and an even nastier administration.

  15. Bryan Divitt-Conway on July 2nd, 2015 11:31 am

    They done the same to me mate £570 bosh with not a care for how you currently live your life. Yes you have a duty to pay for your child but Jesus not £500 a month when you have 4 of your own!!! You have to write a letter to them and sent it recorded delivery so someone has to sign for it and they give a name explaining your circumstances and that you will be forced to go on the dole. plunging a family into the benefits system. Phone them following the letter up and tell them that you are recording the call because the courts are involved. It makes them do their job properly rather than get wide and take the piss and believe me they do that!! I got it down to 325 but that was it. Still a cunt of lump sum. Another thing is the CSA dont take into account the Mothers situation. She could have a new man and raking it in with your money on top!!! System is a fuckin shambles if you ask me and many other fathers and Mother. A FUCKIN SHAMBLES

  16. Bryan Divitt-Conway on July 2nd, 2015 11:33 am

    Also change companies if you can or have a word with the boss. Go self employed/ 🙂

  17. Samantha Whyte on July 2nd, 2015 11:37 am

    Doesn’t sound right. When I had ongoing case my husband had to provide wage slips as well as myself. My ex new partner had to declare their income too. Ask for a departure.

  18. Bryan Divitt-Conway on July 2nd, 2015 11:40 am

    Samantha they do what they want. They say they’ve sent communication when they have’nt so they can take it straight to DOE.(Deduction of earnings) they are a shower of ex credit card people tasked with getting as much money as possible with not a thought theres real lives behind the money!!!

  19. Dean Preston on July 2nd, 2015 6:48 pm

    £1082 here a month here. Got Citizens Advice involved and they listen to them and got it reduced to 400 a month…..Where do they get these figures from? Worst of all my Ex only sees 167 of it….Where is the rest going???

  20. Gemma Marie Bennett on July 2nd, 2015 6:50 pm

    can you not cancel the csa claim and make a private arrangement?

  21. Dean Preston on July 3rd, 2015 6:33 am

    No once they get involved which was my ex’s choice they are there until the end. My other kids are 22, 20 and 14 this year so should get reduced come September….?

  22. Dean Preston on July 3rd, 2015 6:36 am

    They just don’t care what impact it has on anyone’s welfare. I agree everyone should pay for their children but not take money and keep it for themselves.

  23. Daryl Chetty on July 5th, 2015 10:33 am

    Self employed is the last resort . What we all should do is write to the government to shut it down . Every parent should come to a amicable agreement then both parents can see the child and that is the law of the cms . At the moment we as parents are only keeping the csa in there jobs cos we are paying a percentage to run it . There are 2 million people forced to use the csa and then the paying parent pays 7 percent more of what he or she as to pay . The receiving parent looses 4 percent of the money so who are the winners it’s certainly not the child it’s the csa

  24. Dominic on October 22nd, 2016 12:14 am

    CSM destroying men who care abt there kids. I have been part of my kids life for last 8 years. Then the poison drips. My ex and her new bloke hate our 50/50 arrangement. Then bingo after a constructed arguement my kids walk away from me. I then get CSM letter after creating a house for me and my kids prior to walkout. I now have £80 a month to live on and she has a 40k plus job. So bdnkruptcy looms whilst she lauds it up. This is corrupt and I asked the CMS man if he aware of male suicide rates due to finsncial devestation of divorce….surprise he didnt. Then I asked him if he was proud of his job and what it causes and how corrupt it was….he struggled to answer. Im fighting this all the way win or lose she may have started the bsttle but the war aint won.

  25. Peter west on December 19th, 2017 10:11 pm

    I have one child that I do not see, her mum has never given me a chance to get to know her.

    I have four children from my marriage previous to that child.
    They all four live with me in a hostel as their mother left them with me.
    I pay £235 a week to live in the hostel, I pay £254 a week childcare to be able to go to work.

    I earn £270 net a week… they pay £410 a week tax credits (including 70% towards childcare costs)

    £489 outgoing and £680 incoming.. that’s £191 for the five of us a week for bills, food and general needs…

    Child maintenance have put an order in place to deduct £110 per week direct from my wages.

    We are living on £81 a week and our monthly CB payment.
    They even took it to court without giving me the date!!

  26. michael donohoe on November 20th, 2019 11:18 am

    I have just received a letter from CSA and they are taking 701 pm from my wages I only earn 1300 I phoned and they told me there is nothing they can do and me and my wife are going to end up home less
    I just don’t know what to do as no one can help is ther anyone on here that can give me some advice as I’m reall y loosing it here

  27. michael donohoe on November 20th, 2019 11:22 am

    I have just received a letter from CSA and they are taking 701 pm from my wages I only earn 1300 I phoned and they told me there is nothing they can do and me and my wife are going to end up home less
    I just don’t know what to do as no one can help is ther anyone on here that can give me some advice as I’m really loosing it here I have never even met the child and she is 15 now I have no contact with her mother and my name is not even on the birth certificate but CSA don’t care

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