Is your latest tax calculation evidence of earnings?

December 16, 2021

Hi guys

I won’t go through to much of a spill as the majority of my plight is similar to the rest, safe to say I also have an evil ex partner who has very few morals and hell bent on causing as much anguish as possible.

I went self employed in 2020, which obviously caused the other party to throw hissy fit after hissy fit, at first the cms advised I would have to continue paying the calculated amount from the previous tax year, which I disputed, as financial speaking my taxable income dropped significantly. They then advised I would have to show evidence of what I’m earning or may earn to which I responded with an amount and certain evidence!

This has fallen on deaf ears now for nearly 2 years, now 56 letters , 78 text messages , 41 phone calls , money stolen from my bank , and threats of asset seizure and passport / driving licence bans later in no nearer solving there mesmerising equations on evidence and financial prof !! ( those figures are real )

So last month I obtained from HMRC exactly what I earnt and what I was taxed in the form of a tax calculation and promptly sent it over on the online portal. This has now ( today ) been rejected as evidence – my argument with the inept employee on the phone was “ this is exactly how you calculate your yearly reviews , through HMRC tax calculations “ I was told we can do that but you can’t !!!! I asked what exactly can be handed over as evidence of earnings if a tax calculation cannot – I was told my projected earnings , which I’ve sent over 9 times now !

So question is guys ,

1 : is your latest tax calculation evidence or not of earnings ?

2 : am I legally obligated to sign on the doll ?? As I’ve been told now I can not “ just not work” as they will still accrue what they deem I owe ??

Absolute madness !!

I’ve contacted my local MP ( who I’ve now found out has interests in this scam continuing – much like David Cameron)

I’ve also made at least 10 complaints to various authority’s who don’t really want to know !

We live in an age of equality ( what is equal about charging a man 20% fees and a woman 4% ?? It’s a total farce and the more people who ignore this rubbish the better .

Court order vs CSA!

December 14, 2021

Background information my ex left me for the 4th times x2 adultery. We was together 15 years married 12 years. I have 2 children aged 8 and 3. I have had constant problems getting access to my children and went to court to get this.

I am cutting this part very short it’s unbelievable what she’s done and doing I could write a novel.

Just like the many cases I have read on here, my experience of the CSA is very similar.

I have a court order stating I have equal joint custody although it is made up of 5 overnight stays and x2 evening. Over 2 weeks. So 50% custody.

The CSA in my experience are a law of there own. Every person you speak to gives you different answers, there advice has been wrong on numerous occasions. It is a very 1 sided service, I contacted October about my court order it is still unactioned. I purposely with every intention of paying back my arrears did not pay this month, so my ex would contact the service as they was not responding to my messages. I was contacted the day after she contacted them, yet my request had been ignored for 2 months.

I have sent numerous messages and evidence supporting my claims of how and what I do for my children. Including my court order.

I then finally get a response and my letter does not indicate any details on what it was about how they have investigated or anything really, it basically just said we have investigated your claims and your ex partner does not agree with your claims.

So basically the court order I sent in is fake and I am a liar as my ex said its not true.

(if my ex said the world was flat it must be true because she said it is).

If you don’t agree with this letter you can appeal.

That’s great if I knew what I was appealing against and could resubmit the evidence.

I am getting nowhere with the CSA. My next step is my local MP.

Any more advice would be appreciated.

The CSA are the worst organisation I have ever been involved with, the staff are rude, unhelpful and like I say can make up there own rules. I will keep battling.

Good luck all.

Is there any point carrying on?

December 13, 2021

So I have been forced out of my home, because my wife decided she didn’t love me anymore (denied me sex for 3 years, forced me to work a 2nd job while she cut her hours down) I only see my kids for one weekend in two, they can’t stay overnight because of the awful council tenants causing noise 24/7 above my father’s maisonette (where I am staying.

I am paying off debt accrued during my marriage, and trying to save for a deposit to move out.

I paid, in a private arrangement, 400gbp per month for my two girls (who I miss so much) and I stopped for one month in an effort to get my wife to sign the Financial agreement I had drawn up as part of my divorce.

She has been stalling for months, and I have had to take such a paltry amount (after she lied about getting legal advice on the monetary amount she was due to give me).

She refuses to communicate, yet I withhold payment once, in a desperate effort to get her moving on the finances and lo and behold the CSA get in contact within 24 hours demanding.

Why on earth is the receding parents’ income not taken into account? She earns twice what I do, has a permanent roof over her head??

I had to cancel taking my girls to Peppard pig World as I couldn’t afford it, but the 400gbp I had to give my wife meant my daughters won’t instead with her. I was devastated.

If I get a promotion at work; I end up paying more (for whatever reason) if she gets paid more; it has no impact.

Who on earth thinks this is fair? The whole system is ramapantly semester, even the examples in the booklet the CSA provides is about a man giving a woman money – as if its a god given right?

It does not coat 400gbp a month to cloth and feed two children, who comes up with this garbage?

So currently I’m in a home that can be taken away from me whenever my father feels like it, I have no money to save for a deposit and can’t see my kids overnight due to the mongoloids that live above me.

Any point carrying on?

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