Browse > Home / Archive: November 2019

Ex is using CMS and my kids as a weapon

November 13, 2019

How is ok that someone can use CMS as a wepon. I had an agreement with my ex and was paying her a set amount each month. Although we did not get on very well thinks were ok I got to see my kids. This all changed when I meet my now wife. My ex became a nightmare, she tried to interfere with my relationship in anyway she could. Cut a long story short she would not let me see my kids and when I whent round to find out why she and her boyfriend attacked me. I have not seen them in 3 years. She then told CMS that I did not pay and CMS got on my case. I have the prof to show i did pay but CMS still went head with the clam. Not only that after a number of fudge up by CMS they cant even provide me with information as to why the case was even started.

How do I get help.

Written by Scott Fisher · Filed Under CSA Complaints | 2 Comments 

CMS does what it wants and needs to be accountable!

November 7, 2019

My story is in relation to the hell that the current CMS system has put us through for nearly the past year! Firstly, my parter was falsely accused of Domestic Assault, which didn’t happen by his ex-wife, and all because she knew he was starting divorce proceedings against her, and that we were buying a house together also! A lot of what she did has been due to jealousy over the girls they had and the lifestyle we have away from her!

She sunk to the lowest form and contacted these CMS scumbags, just so she could make a profit of having children! These arseholes use a really crap calculation going on previous earnings from last year! Firstly this is not a fair calculation, as everyone earns different amounts each year, and secondly they kept sending conflicting payment schedules varying from different amounts each month! I would also like to point out that they always favour the lying…I mean Receiving Parent, she firstly lied once about the amount of nights the girls stay with us, then lied again saying that they only stayed with us 2 nights a week, when they stayed with us for 3 or more nights a week! It clearly states on the forms that if you lie on the form then you will be punished with £1000 fine or court, so my question is why don’t these money grabbing scumbags inflict the same punishment on the RP? None of what they do is fair on the paying parent!

Our hell with these losers does not end there, as the ex failed to provide her bank details for months, not to forget she cost my partner over £1000 in court fees and legal costs due to her lies! Back in August they then issued my partner with another payment schedule saying that he was to pay £263/month which is more affordable than the ridiculous amounts they kept coming up with like over £500/month, and then said he had arrears of £110 which was easy to pay off! Then these arseholes sent my partner another letter after the last letter saying that he was being placed on an illegal DEO, of £591/month, which is ridiculous and wrong as he had been paying up to then, also they then decided that he now had arrears of £1600! I understand that CSA was shut down due to bad accounting, however CMS seem to not learn from their past mistakes! Where the hell do they come off making up false and fictitious arrears and making the paying parent’s life hell?!

I would like to state that children living with the paying parent are worth a lot more that the measly 11/12% reduction in CMS, and this figure needs to equal to 50%! Please tell me how 12% is fair on the biological children living with the paying parent! Yet again CMS are failing families and children all over!

We have emailed this useless agency stating that we can’t afford the extortion, and have complained to them using our MP, and they have failed to answer all our complaints which included, unfairness and treatment of my partner, an explanation into why the arrears jumped up to £1600 from £110, conflicting payment schedules on a monthly basis, and just genuine rubbish handling of his case!

I would like to see CMS investigated to the fullest extent, as yet again they have failed to explain the fictitious arrears, and fully respond to their own incompetence and bad mathematical skills to come up with the poor formula that financially rapes the paying parent of everything they have! They are failing in every aspect, & clearly do not have the children’s best interest at heart!
They don’t enforce that the money to the RP is being spent on the children, when it has been proven time and time again that CMS is paying for the ex’s lifestyle!

I am a big believer in a legal and normal 50/50 shared parenting! Children deserve both equal time with their mother and father, in order for them to grow and develop into stable adults. What I don’t believe in is this self-entitled crap that most women believe is theirs for the taking, when it really isn’t! I do not believe that having children is a profitable way of earning an income, which is what CMS is about! Why should fathers mainly suffer due to a toxic mother’s intent at destroying him financially and ruining his relationship with the children! Sole custody should no longer be in the mothers hands, and this should be 50/50 equal parenting, with no child support needed! The family legal system needs to be reformed, as this is in the children’s best interests!

Written by Charlotte Wood · Filed Under CSA Complaints | Leave a Comment 

CSA bumped up my payments even though I don’t get to see my kids!

November 5, 2019

I have just had my review and now I have to pay £109 a week!!!! It was £82. This is for 2 children that I am allowed to see but the ex of five years will not allow!!! I bump into them all the time as I only live a 2 minutes walk from there home!!! I understand I should be paying towards my children, I don’t justify how much or if the parent doesn’t allow you to see them, plus, I’m damn sure £109 a week will not be going on them 2 children!! Csa reckon I am paying half towards there upbringing. Load of codswallop!!!!!!

Written by Mr white · Filed Under CSA Complaints | Leave a Comment 

CSA doing what they when they want!

November 4, 2019

I will try and keep this short and sweet. I have 2 girls that I have been paying £250 a month for but was not good enough. CSA went back to my ex wife and said you can actually get more money. They advised her and me I should pay £500 a month? I then set up an arrangement with her for £400 a month which she agreed and have it on text message and never missed a payment only to get paid on Thursday and after checking my payslip CSA went direct pay and took £813 direct out of my pay and I don’t understand how these monsters can do this. I called them to ask why and they just keep saying the sent me correspondence which I have received nothing. I asked him how they can help to get an answer well the short answer is no and we will take £813 this month next month and the month after this. How am I suppose to survive. The CSA are animals and a law to them self. I need help and advice big time.

Written by Ricky Forlenza · Filed Under CSA Complaints | Leave a Comment 

>