Month: February 2014

18 February 2014

At my wits’ end – please help!

Hello, I am at my wits end. 9 yrs ago my marriage broke up, my ex was an Army Officer & he…

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14 years on I’m still being punished for her unfaithfulness

I split with my ex in 2000 and ever since have been paying monthly in a private agreement, I fell ill at…

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Going round in circles

I left my ex in 2000, he never gave me and my 2 boys a penny for over a year. i then…

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17 February 2014

I’ll end up on the streets thanks to the CSA

Hi i have a private arrangment wiv my ex for my daughter total out of no where csa hit me with a…

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£25 a week for two children?

I made a claim with the csa in sept 2010, i have two daughters now aged 15 and 13, there father now…

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“It’s the law” is their answer to everything

I have a son from a previous relationship who i have always played a major role in his life following the seperation…

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16 February 2014

Is it worth me taking a minimum wage job?

Advice please. I am currently earning 18k a year ( gross). I am paying £205 a month to my obnoxious ex for…

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You’re the man, so you have no say

I have been paying child maintenance for my husband for his children from a previous relationship. The youngest child is now over…

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Is this incompetence or fraudulence?

I have been involved with the csa since 2001 although the parent of care has changed on occasions. My daughter is almost…

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15 February 2014

We’re suffering due to a lie 17 years ago

My partner is a wonderful man 17 years ago he was in a relationship for 7months with a female who said she…

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