No money for 11 years from ex, now he wants CSA money from me

April 16, 2011

My daughter has gone to live with her father aged 11. I have brought her up alone since she was 18 months old, her father never paid maintenance and i never went to the csa because i dont agree with it and have always worked and supported myself and my family.

He still lives in the marital home and has immediatley contacted the csa who are not interested in what has happened previously. I am willing to come to an amicable agreement and have even sent a letter through a solicitor Read more

CSA will not take my outgoings into account

April 15, 2011

I have been split from my ex nearly 7yrs, for the first 3/4years I paid her £300 per month and had my 4 children every other weekend from fri-sun, as circumstances changed, she moved over 90miles away and i met my now wife, i changed jobs etc and i stopped paying, firstly because i lost my job, i still had the girls at weekends though meeting her halfway on a friday night and sunday afternoon. i got married in july 2008 and the girls were to come, we had bought them dressess etc at the last minute my ex cancelled so i went mad and told her what a spiteful bitch she was probably not the best wording at the time, it was then over a year before i got to see them again, she still cancelled dates when i was to see them, i have now only had access at holiday time or the odd weekend, mainly due to the cost of Read more

Payments from CSA take 28 days

April 15, 2011

I seperated from ex 7 yrs ago, it took 6 yrs to get a payment as him and his boss kept coming up with storys which i knew werent true, and he kept moving.

They both have been warned three times bout sending in the payment on time and the correct amount which every month im still having to ring up and chase. I got told after three warnings they would go to court, which still hasnt happened and still i have to chase them up.

He still misses some payments or i get it late which i dont understand how that happens as its ment to come from his wages. I’m fed up having to keep chasing my money, and him trying to get out of paying it. I think more needs to be done and also when the csa collect it, it takes them forever to put money into my account. Its a press of a button but seems to take up to 28 days.

It’s bad enough waiting for my ex to put it in without waiting for csa aswel …sort it please….a frustreated and fed up mum!

CSA Bolton is a disgrace

April 14, 2011

Don’t really know where to start, after my now ex husband left me i was left with my 2 boys, who for the 1st few years he was happily paying me thirty pounds a week per child.

Gradually the payments lessened and i was forever chasing to recieve what i was owed.. so i phoned csa and after much thought i closed my existing case out of frustration!! After a while i asked my ex if we could come to some agreement. His reply was negative and he told me to contact csa again if i wanted any money from him!!

So i did this and a new case was opened and he was re assessed at having to pay me 6POUND a week back in 2009.. now this is a man that is a director of at least two companys and when i was married to him was paying himself Read more

Complaint letter to the Child Support Agency

April 14, 2011

To whoever it may concern,

I write to you again whilst still waiting for a reply to my last 3-4 correspondence about money I have already given to LAURA AUSTIN. The money you are taking from me and giving to her is causing more heartache and trouble than you could possibly believe.

As stated several times in my previous Letters, Fax’s and Emails, you are taking an attachment of earnings from me and giving it to a woman who I have already paid for my son’s upkeep for the last TEN years.

She has lied to you and cheated me and my son out of money that is rightfully ours FRAUD!

My son still hasn’t received a single penny from her and now I can’t afford to help him anymore.

Again as stated previously, my son’s mother is a violent alcoholic who you are making me feed her habit/habits need proof??

2 weeks ago LAURA AUSTIN was arrested for beating an old age pensioner over the head in his own home. The pensioner was trying to protect his daughter who Ms Austin beat to a pulp and needed hospital attention (severe bruising and a broken arm). The 65 year old man needed 18 stitches to the head, treatment for concussion and a broken wrist. The argument started over comments Laura Austin made on Read more

CSA wants to put me on the dole

April 13, 2011

I cant believe ive only just heard about this web site.

Firstly, if it wasnt for my partner and step kids i wouldnt be here. The csa have made me crack. I am ex forces and use to be married to an irish girl who fell pregnant, and when my son was born she told me that she didnt want me in there lives.

With that and with mad reasons most normal people who dont know much about what its like to leave the armed services, I burried my head in the sand and run from it for years. I’m currently paying maintenance for my son who i cant get to Read more

Will the CSA still want money if I am in hospital unable to work?

April 13, 2011

I have to go into hospital for an operation and it is likely I will also have to have another operation later this year. My employer does not pay sick so I will be losing money during my time in hospital and recovering. I currently pay £465 a month CSA via standing order and I am worried and even contemplating not having my operations as I just can not afford to keep up this payment with the ammount of wages I will be losing over the months I am in hospital. I have not contacted the CSA about this and I Read more

How can the CSA get away with it?

April 12, 2011

I really cant believe how the CSA can get away with robbing people of their hard earned cash, as if the government hadn’t found enough ways to take nearly all your wages off you e.g tax, vat on every item you buy etc.

I was seeing my son twice a every 4 days (work 4 on 4 off) and loved every minute of it, always wanted to be a dad and would do anything for my son. Then the ex decided just because she was with someone else that she could do anything she wanted with a click of her fingers; demanding me to look after my son on days she knew I couldnt, gving a couple hours notice for looking after him etc.

Now she has stopped me seeing him all together!

Why should she be able to take certain rights from me but only what suits her (doesnt let me see him but still Read more

Trapped into being a father after one night stand

April 12, 2011

Hi now before i go into this i do not wanted to be slated by anyone. I had a one night stand with a girl who said she was on the pill it turns out she conveniently forgot to take it (Told me in the morning) and went to take the morning after pill that day.

I get a phone call some weeks later saying she was pregnant and that it was mine. that said and done the child is mine and im not arguing the case. now im not disputing the pill is only 99.9999 percent affective (always a good argument in this case) but if she forgot to take just for 24 hours and then took the morning after pill straight away (which she said she did) then surely she wouldn’t get pregnant?

Either way i personally think she lied. and i have emails to say what had happened from her point of view. now if i could prove she was lying and “trapped” me would the CSA take a different look at her? like i said im not arguing the fact the child is mine and he will get everything he can possibly wish for, however i dont like the fact that some militant barks orders at me from the phone making me feel like im in the wrong.

Can anyone help?

CSA putting more fathers in jail than ever before

April 11, 2011

In an attempt to perverse its flailing reputation, the Child Support Agency has released figures that emphasise how many fathers have been imprisoned over child maintenance payments – but critics are not impressed.

Over the last year, more than 50 parents – mostly fathers – have been given prison sentences for missing child maintenance payments. Critics have not hesitated to point out how this is likely more harmful than beneficial to Read more

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