No money for 11 years from ex, now he wants CSA money from me
My daughter has gone to live with her father aged 11. I have brought her up alone since she was 18 months old, her father never paid maintenance and i never went to the csa because i dont agree with it and have always worked and supported myself and my family.
He still lives in the marital home and has immediatley contacted the csa who are not interested in what has happened previously. I am willing to come to an amicable agreement and have even sent a letter through a solicitor stating this but my ex is unwilling to co-operate.
It seems unfair that I should be penalised because he is unreasonable. Surely if the absent parent is willing to reach an agreement and the parent with care is not, there should be some sort rule to to enforce this as both parties would be better off financially due to the percentage of monies that the csa keep for administration purposes. Does anybody have any advice that could help me?
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I agree that something should be in place if the nrp wants to make an arrangment and the PWC is just being stubborn. I offered my ex £60 a week for our 13 year old daughter. She refused and now i have to pay £100 a week through the CSA. I am on old rules.
You are wrong about the percentrage that they ckeep. My ex receives the full £100 a week. The way they make their money for “administration” purpuses is to make up arrears that dont exist then take then directly from NRP wages.