My ex cheats on me, I pay CSA to her

April 17, 2010

Having paid £50 to my son for the last 10yrs, my ex has been in touch with the CSA, out of my £350 wkly wage I now have to pay £150 A WEEK, due to what they say is arrears.

How the hell can I AFFORD THAT?

I’m in rented property, have a car to run to get me to work, bills to pay. Having assessed my wage I now have £4.97p aweek for myself. I’m 48yrs old, never been out of work since I left the army after school. I’m now having to terminate my flat and seriously packing my job in.

My ex commited adultery it was me who’s life was shatterd, why the hell can’t they look at the man’s side of the story, which idiot runs the csa?

Comments

2 Responses to “My ex cheats on me, I pay CSA to her”

  1. chall on April 19th, 2010 9:38 am

    Hi I.A. FROST,

    Is your case CSCS (CS1) or CS2?

    Your also welcome to click on my user name and join us in the forum at afairercsaforall.

  2. pauline on June 25th, 2012 10:32 pm

    HI ALL MY HUSBANDS EX HAS BEEN RECEIVING CSA FOR THE PAST 17 YRS SINCE SHE HAD AN AFFAIR AND TOOK HIS 3 BOYS WITH HER AT FIRST HE GAVE HER CASH IN HAND 500 PER MNTH UNTILL A COUPLE OF TIMES HE GOT INTO DIFFERCULTY HIMSELF PAYING HIS OWN BILLS SO SHE GOT THE CSA INVOLVED AND THEY DID ASSESMENT AND TOOK IT OUT OF HIS WAGES PLUS ARREARS HE OWED NOW ALL THESE YEARS LATER HIS YOUNGEST SON TURNED 19 HE NO LONGER HAS TO PAYCSA BUT THEY NOW TELL HIM HE OWES 8000 ARREARS WHERE HAS THIS MONEY COME FROM AND WHAT CAN HE DO

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