CSA make it harder to see your children
As in the many cases I’ve read my ex-wife continues to recieve csa payments and although I’ve appealed and at present waiting for my tribunal date 5 months on forever chasing them.I am at present on the “old” system and can’t request to be swiched onto the new system which would benefit myself, been told that if my ex requests to change she can. Which doesn’t do much for equal rights this is a sexist organisation who have no clue how real people live, they actually make it harder to see your kids.
I applied for travel allowance to collect my kids as the ex moved out of the area which is 97 mile round trip some idiot there calculated the trip door to door to be 12 miles as the crow flies tried explaining that I have a car not a helicopter,which again fell on deaf ears. As with all fathers we love and miss not seeing our kids on a daily basis and look forward to our time together but due to the amount of csa we pay are unable to treat the kids to anything like a luxury ,my ex spends the money on holidays for herself and new husband and goes when my parents take my kids away as i cant afford to.She never spends the money where it is meant to go on the kids.
It appears to me that a woman is allowed a life after divorce, which isn’t the same as men as when we get involved with another partner the csa want to take thier income into concideration (they don’t take the new husbands money into account).Why is the mans new partner being asked to pay towards kids that are not her responsibility .
Under the old system I have to pay 40% of my £1200 per month income to my ex and also try to keep my own house going which would be impossible without the help I’m fortunate to get from my parents.These people have no clue as when making assessments they don’t take cost of running a car fuel road tax,insureance,wear and tare,which we need to maintain contact,also they don’t take household bills gas electricity insureances into account.
I’ve sat here this winter with a blanket around me as I can’t afford to put the gas on.I just hope that these arseholes oneday face the same problems and get the same cocky attitude Iget when Icontact them
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Again I dont agree with women are allowed a life after a divorce/break/up whereas the men dont. As dif. for my sit. my ex had 2 more children one now in another country and he has never paid for it, the other by a woman who has never worked and has/had no intention of working and has another child by another men, then he moved on to a woman with about 4 or 6 kids (not sure how many – dif fathers obviously) who cooks, cleans, etc. for him whilst he pays virtually nothing for his children, earns a fortune, has his own house, etc. whilst I have struggled to bring my children up and support them in all ways, with my parents having to help at times. I did find someone but took me a while as I had no trust whatsoever due to him and being an abusive man, but the men of my dreams, died, since then I havent been able to find another men like him and obviously still distrusting, I dont own my house, I have struggled in stay in work, etc. had health probs due to this also, so I would say my ex came out better in all this. So please dont judge everyone like your ex.