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No the CSA will not take his girlfriends money into account why should she pay for your children?
Another greedy cow.
No sorry only your exs income so you cannot screw him for more
Why don’t you just go around and smash his windows, it seems he has managed to move on, whereas you just seem intent on revenge and retribution
Some NRP’s count on the new partner or the state to pick up the tab. Most new partners will do what they can to fill the void left by the NRP. NRPs should be grateful for that, not moan. When all a NRP does is send pictures to his/her children from exotic holiday travels paid for with support withheld from them, this will not exactly endear him/her with those left behind. Also think twice before picking them up in a posh new car you bought yourself to feel better. If you are in genuine financial need try talking to your ex to find a solution. His new partner may want to help if she is not treated as a villain but an important new person in your children’s life. Best for the children if you all try to get on together.
@ Marcus – NRP’s have nothing to be grateful for … no matter what the new partner does, it does not benefit the NRP!! The decent ones are still abused by the CSA and the ‘absent fathers’ still run scott free…….
With regards to his new partner, like me, I would hope she went into the relationship whith her eyes open and willing to commit to him and his kids (financially and emotionally), however, its not easy on the NRPP (of a decent NRP) when the ex (PWC) only sees money signs and will whatever it takes to get more money (including the new partners money!!!).
The whole CSA system is unfair and unjust to the DECENT parents (and step parents) out there…. 🙁
One word. Leech.
My sons dad used to pretend he still stayed at his old address while renting out his flat to folk while staying with his gf every time Csa wrote to his new address they would return it saying he wasn’t there, he’s currently just left his job (again) after just 7 months of paying towards his 5 year old I hate the way some people on this site see the mums as all money grabbing bastards and the poor men HAVING to pay for THEIR child yes some men have to suffer and pay way too much for their child I feel it should be standard amount for all, and I believe some mums take the piss and any Csa is paid goes on them and not the child. Not all women are money grabbers they are maybe just a little pissed off about being treated like a mug fae their ex’s who don’t want to pay or refuse to pay!!!!
@CSAHell urrrrgggghh grabbing bitch :-&
Hmm tricky one this after reading previous comments , some very harsh ones at that are you all forgetting children need to be financially supported throughout their lives . By BOTH parents and no she is not a “leech” she’s enquiring as to whether or not her ex can give his children financial support . No they will not look into his new girlfriends income , it’s a shame that the arguments always come down to money . If you make a baby both should do their utmost to ensure your children have all the support they need . Instead if name calling and arguing look at it as I’m paying for my kids quality of living not paying my ex for hers or his benefits .
people like u make me sick what a greedy cow……. y should she pay for yr kids…… they changed the law in 2003 to stop people like y taking money for kids nothing to do with em…….its bad enough they take the kids money tax credits in to consideration when u would get it for your own kids but not only that but you expect her to pay as well for your kids go crawl back under your rock u GREEDY little madame…….
and SALLY i dont mean to be rude but why should she go in to a relation ship with ANY responibility FINACIALLY to pay for HIS KIDS their HIS N THE EX KIDS…. she has NO commiment AT ALL to someone elses kids… while she may accept and support the family while his bank account attacked for years on end to fund the ex lifestyle SHE(new partner) is IN NO WAY reposnible AT ALL for someone elses kids so your statement is a bit disgusting you would expect her to do so im a NRP wife and the csa are ripping my family apart they dont give 2 shits about my kids and if they got no food a bed etc why the hell should I give two shits about someone elses kids………
My ex and I split years ago i remarried I have NEVER asked for a penny off the scumbag and they have never wanted for anything and still dont
DADS IM ON YOUR SIDE ALL THE WAY
My argument is tho if a pwc has a partner their income doesn’t get included within the household either so why should an nrps partner’s? I’m glad the law changed somewhat, but nrps tax credits are included which I don’t agree with.
I don’t agree with anyone having to pay for someone else’s kids, if the nrp’s partner wants to treat the kids then that should be their choice and not mandatory.
ha why the bloody hell should you be entitled to your ex’s new gf money. SHE IS NOT responsible for yours n his child/children. CSA have it all wrong. to the 2 Peter’s they took my earnings into account and they also take into account all my child benefits and child tax credits that we receive for my husbands son. Think it is ridiculous and totally unfair that my money and the money I receive for our two children is taken into account. Why the hell penalize my 2 children for another child. Women like this make me laugh out for all they can get!!
If you cant afford to keep your kids give them to him, leaves you to find a good job then he can goto the csa and get money from you.
I am the one who asked the question!! just a question I do not deserve such abuse. and I am not quite sure who you think you are calling me when you no nothing about me personally. my mum always says unintelligent people call names. The reason for my enquiry was because for 8 years I worked two part time jobs and a full time job to cover the csa charges for HIS 3 children… (MYstep children) ,My income was taken into consideration then. I did all the school runs, attended all productions, meetings and did all the home work with them (YES I AM A SELFISH / GREEDY COW).
I DO NOT EXPECT NO BODY TO PAY OR SUPPORT MY CHILD!! I DO THAT PERFECTLY MYSELF…! WORKING TWO PARTIME JOBS, DOING 2 COURSES TO BETTER MY SON AND MINES FUTURE AND BEEN A FULL TIME M0THER!!
I NEVER WENT TO CSA IT WAS THE COURTS WHO TOLD HIM HE HAD TO PAY.. RIGHT AFTER THEY STOP HIM HAVING CONTACT!!!! NOT ME!!!!
Like I tell my son!! don’t judge people by your own standards!!! and if haven’t got anything nice or intelligent to say.. Prob best to say nothing!!
Oh and Rachael swan.. nice to no there are some helpful people out there..
I don’t agree that any children’s money should be taken into consideration but they claim benefits as a couple so wanted to no if those benefits would be halved and based on that or if it will be a combined with a total income they both get together.
Believe me I have told the courts I don’t want his money… He has no contact with my son for his own fault…!!! Courts decision . Any money that is received from the csa goes straight into an savings account in my sons name.. so if he don’t pay then account will have nothing in it… I pay in to a separate account for my son of 100 a month!! I have nothing to be ashamed about nor am a any of the above names. maybe people should jumped to conclusions before they no the story and just answer the question in hand instead of getting personal !!
another money grabbing skank that believes the world including her ex and any partner he has owes her a fucking pay cheque each month. cunt!!!
your ex and his new life don’t owe you a living…go get a fucking job and stop expecting an income from your kids father and partner.
yes harsh and angry select words, but they are used to sum up a bitch like you who uses a father as a ATM machine and the kids as cash cows. grrrrrrrrrrrrrr
gonk
and another thing…if you moved a new full time working partner in? how about the csa taking his income into account and in doing so reducing what you get from your ex ?
NO YOU WOULDNT LIKE THAT WOULD YOU!!!
SKANK
Gonk
unfortunately most people on here have had it proved time & time again that their ex, the mother, is a bitter money grabbing, benefit claiming waste of space that blame the father & use the kids as weapons Louise. You may not like it but it’s a fact.
@ erika (the original poster) It is only the income of the NRP (Non Resident Parent) that is taken into account as your case will be either under CS2 or the new new rules, the income of the partner of the NRP does not come into the equasion.
omg I cant sum up the hatred i feel for you and the reason you may think is different to most, you think by using the big bullys at the csa that you will somehow walk into the enchanted forest of money trees and golden fleeces and live happily ever after at someone else s behest. we the nrp move on from relationship s with shit like you because you are shit . I will never pay the csa and the sooner others did the same the better , all of your life you are told to trat people with dignity and respect and not to bully, you leave school unprepared for the exact opposite for the rest of your life ….. money grabbing fat lardy assed benefit grabbing slag. get a fucking job or overdose on special brew and do the world a favour you piece of excrement.
Terry Norris, john and all the other people out there who like to call names .I have two jobs!!! it is them the ex and his g/f that don’t work!! not because they are ill just because they get more money on the social!!!! like I wrote last night.
so either you cant read or have completely miss understood the situation!!
I am the original post holder . Erika.
MY comments from last night as clearly you have missed them!!!
when I WAS WITH MY EX I WORKED ONE FULL TIME JOB AND TWO PART TIME JOBS TO COVER THE COST OF THE CSA CHARGES FOR HIS 3 CHILDREN.. (MY STEP CHILDREN). greedy skank bitch and all the rest of it… NOT AT ALL!! I attended all the school productions, meetings and did all the school runs.
Now I currently work two part time jobs and doing two courses to make sure that my career goes some where… oh also while raising my son single handed!!! don’t judge me by your own disgusting standards!! I don’t need anyone to raise or support my son I can do that perfectly!!!!!!!
Now here is my advise!!!! I was brought up to no that unintelligent people call names,
The question was asked as they claim benefits as a couple!!! that is the reason I asked!!! The courts are the ones who made him pay csa oh and stopped them having contact!!! so maybe in future you people who stand on your high horse should either stick to answering the question in hand or if want to have the right to cast such a judgement, you should gather all the facts first!!!
I am not sure who is in charge of this site but this is an absolute disgrace that these abusive comments are allowed!!
@ Melanie Parton… I DO NOT think the new partner should be EXPECTED to pay a penny towards child maintenance and think any PWC who thinks we should is wrong!!!
The point I was making was that most new partners don’t mind spending money on their partners children, when we go on holiday with the kids, I pay for half the holiday, when we go on day trips, to the cinema… anything we do with the kids I pay half or more – my choice… I never pay for myself and expect my partner to pay for himself and the kids… when we are together we share everything…
My partners ex is a greedy, vindictive, horrible woman and made our lives hell so we sold up, put all assets in my name and he became a student… all because the PWC DEMANDED I pay towards child maintenance!!! she went from getting hundreds of pounds each month from my partner to getting £5 per week…. so please don’t misunderstand me when I say new partner should expect to pay…. it should be by choice and be for the benefit of the kids… NOT the PWC…
I hope I have clarified that as no one dislikes greedy, lazy PWCs more than me!