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It’s early days mate. You’ll soon learn that you could be paying everything, and someone’s whispering in her ear “he should be giving you more”. My advice, if you wanna avoid going bust and costly arguments over the phone with CSA, then just start paying through them, and stop paying everything else. I know it’s nice to be providing for your son, but she is just being a greedy bitch, and no matter what you pay, she’ll always want more. Nip it in the bud, asap.
In the eyes of the CSA, buying clothes for your son and paying for his after school club is not construed as child maintenance. Unless you can afford this, then please stop and go by the calculations the CSA give you…pay no more! By all means buy things for your son when you’re with him and if you can, make sure you keep these at your place. You MUST NOT give mum ANY CASH for child maintenance…it must be by BANK TRANSFER and correctly referenced.
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Standing order payments only as direct debit to her account is not classes as a payment