Why can’t they find him?
I’ve been contacting CSA every week since April, my son’s father claims his been laid off 6 weeks before Christmas every year and claims JSA.
He sign off benefits in April and has disappeared, again. They say they have a tracker on him with the Inland Venune, became his not replied to any contact, phone or letter.
He keeps doing this every year, but this year his disappeared off the face of the earth. I’ve given them as much info as I can.
Last year he forced me to go to Mediation, because I had to stop him seeing his son, his an unfit father. I agreed for him to see hos son at a contact centre, but he, as too busy at work to organise it. I believe he only wanted to get back with me, that’s why he done all this Mediation stuff.
Well he being clocking up a large sum of maintenance while he is not claiming benefits? Because he is working. His son has Autism and he knows this and I have to pay towards any services I may need, because of some many cuts at the moment.
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If he’s not bothered and doesn’t want to know forget him. Why waste your time and energy trying to get maybe £5 a week from some loser on benefits?
Enjoy your life, enjoy your children and get on with life.
If he doesnt want to know then that’s his loss. Surely if he is claiming jsa they should be able to trace him through NI. totally agree with ben. Enjoy your kids and get on with it.
Charlotte that’s a bit rich from someone who gets 230.00 a month from her ex and says to him just deal with it….yet he wants more contact, you say he has to go to court then moans he doesn’t understand his child’s needs and that you’re a better mother than his current wife….maybe you should try getting on with it and take your own advice!
I was thinking the same thing about charlotte, she sounds like the biggest money grabber walking, she should take her own advice and let her ex have access, its all about the money isn’t it, these women have no shame