Why can’t the CSA use private investigators?
I am writing because I’m a single mum of 16 years my son was born in October 1998 and my boyfriend disappeared when I was 7 months pregnant with his child ,he decided to leave Grimsby and live with his parents in Peterborough.
He never contacted me ,I found out he was working and I told csa this so that they could track him down ,it’s been 16 years and still nothing.
How fair is it that men can run away from their responsibility a but the woman has to struggle and go through hardship to bring my child up while he is probably all settled down living a good life maybe with a wife and children ,something has to be done about this it’s disgusting that the csa cannot put private investigators out there to find these fathers that shed their responsibilities and get away with it.
There has to be someone that can help me ,I worry for my son as I have a incurable disease in my body ,and all he has is me ,what if anything was to happen to me ,I’m so desperate for help I wish someone would just please take notice ,as I’m so tired from it all now .please help if you can.
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@CSAHell a. the CSA is an evil and totally unfair organization b. you wanted a child with him as much as he did with you c. shut up
If you want a private investigator then pay for one yourself, it’s not up to other people you fix your life.
It may not be fair that SOME men avoid paying but it’s equally unfair that lots of women use csa as a source of income and the fact the system is completely failing genuine people who want to pay by taking up to 50% of their wages and leaving them destitute.
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They can track his national insurance number if you happen to have a old play slip off his. He should pay something towards his kid. Should pay a higher rate if avoiding to take responsibility of his child. At least give him the opinion to take responsibility and take his kid or go to the CSA as a last resort.
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But why now u should be proud u managed all these years without his help u could be opening a can of worms for u and yr son i would consider leaving it and maybe one day when yr son is older he can ask his dad why xx good luck xx
He will be back! I got pregnant 1998 an never received a penny off her dad,he’s reappeared now wanting to meet her… Cheeky so an so!