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Get a job skank
You’ll be waiting a long time for them to help. If he’s not PAYE they’re not interested. I suggest you just do your bit for your twins. It is possible!
if you know where he lives give him the kids if you cant afford to keep them
Harsh Fishcake…it’s hard being a single mum with no support of the father…I work hard and I don’t get any help for the boys of their father. He doesn’t work because it will cost him more money to pay for the kids he’s fathered! It’s time something was done for the kids who’s dads walk away and not look back……..not tarnishing all estranged dads just the ones who get away SCOTT FREE!!!!
Y do u assume she doesn’t work & is a skank or can’t afford to keep her kids???? My ex husband had an affair & has refused point blank to pay I am just about managing but it’s the principle that he was in her life for 6 years & has just walked away from his responsibility! Why shouldn’t he help support his kid? You have no right to be judging people & calling them names & telling them to hand the kids over
I agree beetroot, but I pay £500 a month and Im not allowed to even see my kids.
I know Mick Radford x but you ain’t moaning about paying for them x
And Lucy well said 🙂
illiterate csa career scumbag learnt to breed now wants everyone else to pay, get an education and work for your kids you sponging skank. Bet you have sky t v and cans in the fridge eh.
I would watch what you say to the csa it can be obtained and used against you.
I do work it’s the kids money !!
@ Lucy
I agree this lady needs cutting some slack and no reason to call her a scank or suggest she hand over the kids. That said Lucy I fully understand the anger and bitterness from people on here and why they say such things,far to many mothers use the ex as a ATM machine and the kids as cash cows. And as for the CSA…..lol…they are a joke and don’t give a flying fuck about the kids, they are only interested in taking as much money as poss from us on the paye system to meet targets.they don’t give a shit where,who,how the money is spent.
And your comment about your ex walking away from his responsibility and it being principal. Should I have any principals after my ex walked out on me and took my 3 yr old with her? I didn’t walk from my responsibilities….she relieved me of them and I’m screwed by her with the CSA,s help for the privilege. I was never a bad father or husband,quite the opposite,but she decides to fuck another bloke cause she got bored, so you think I should give a shit about principals ?
Gonk
Oh my god, this is the first time I have come on this site and I am disgusted with the replies some of you are giving!!! How immature and nasty some of you are!!
If you have children then you should bloody well contribute towards their upkeep, both the mother and the father!!
Its the children everyone should be thinking of, not bitter battles between the adults!
It doesnt matter what anyone does in a relationship that ends up in the parents splitting up, if there are children involved then BOTH parents should be paying to bring them up! END OF