Why are ex’s rewarded for cutting off contact?
I have two children from a marriage and one from a relationship after.
I want contact with all my children but the person I have one child with point blank refuses.
CSA take 15% of my wages for that child and will not consider the other two when calculating how much I pay as I have access to them but that involves costs – paying for a house with a bedroom for them, council tax, heating that room plus feeding them and all the other costs.
If I had no access to them the most I would pay is 25% – why is the mother of a child who won’t let me have contact rewarded with more money than the decent parent who, like me wants the best for the children.
The CSA is encouraging mothers to deny fathers access by financially rewarding them! Its disgusting!
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If they refuse contact you pay more csa, it’s simple as that, that actually promote mothers to deny contact.
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This is true. Mothers who refuse contact do get paid more because the father doesn’t get any reduction for overnight stays, or any variation for costs to do with contact. Stop the dad seeing the child and get more money – that’s the message they promote.
Im in the same boat ! I am now having to go to court and get a contract order . Stick it out Duncan
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I absolutely hate that this happens so often ! My children are going through hell because my ex refuses to maintain contact with them and no amount of money in existence could make up for that !!!! Exactly how much is having a father worth ?
I’ve been asking that question myself for the last 4yrs an been screwed by the system an paid thousands it’s wrong an they no in other countrys they prison women for no contact should be bort here I think in some cases
– should be the other way round; to actually PROMOTE contact! :0(
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Pete ask the woman that you do have contact with to make a claim. This will then mean you have a “multi” case. Three children=25% of your income. The mother of the two children will get 2/3 of this. She can then go “Maintenance Direct”. The awkward one effectively gets her payment reduced form 15% of your income to ~8.3%
The whole family court and CSA with the hate fuelled ex will not stop until you are ruined….they are head strong on denying you of a life….bit by bit the state becomes the surragote father….
You have no rights ..you must be totally obedient to her and their demands….if your an older dad like me by the time the child or children become 18 they won’t know you..and you will be financially ruined…if you dared to try and fight your corner trust me they will destroy you…
Good luck and happy new year to you and your fatherless kids..