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Why am I paying my son’s mum when he lives with his nan?
Hi, I dont know if anyone can give me some advice but it would be really helpfull. My son is supposed to be living with his mum but since we broke up he lives with his nan and only spends one night a week with his mum and spends all the holidays with me.
Obviously im having to pay the csa but this is going straigt to his mum, is there a way i can get the payment made to the person he really lives with as my ex only wants him for the money.
I cant afford to go to court as this is already costing me so much but he wants to live with me. Hios nan is retired and dosent want the hassle of a child around the house either but wont risk upsetting her daughter? can any one help me with these problems?
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Basically your payments will go to the person who receives the child benefit. If you can challenge this in some way then you have a fighting chance. It amounts to fraud but the mother will just turn round and say he living with her so you need to get evidence and be prepared for a long wait
Cos she is still claim child benefit for ur son , there is nothing u can do till ur son nanna claims it ,witch is wrong if u sons not living with her , all the csa will say is ,she is still claimin the child benefit so there is norhing u can do, hope this helps and good luck x
u need to report her if the boys not living with her she breaking the law even if she not sing her right other . u well need prof of it as well .
We had the same thing and they did sod all cos PWC was still in receipt of CHB.