Who can help me with the variation order my ex wants?
After a foolish 1 night stand the woman involved got pregnant but i did not find out until the child was 2 yrs old, after a dna test it was proven that i am the father. i have always paid for my son, initially on a mutual agreement through the bank but after i started a new relationship the childs mother went to the csa. I pay my assessment monthly by standing order but she wants more.
I am a self employed business man, who owns alot of property but all proceeds are paid back into the business & i have a monthly salary.
She has now applied for a variation order saying that i live a lavish lifestyle, holidaying several times a year etc (my family have not had a holiday in 4 years now).
How can she be entitled to everything ive worked for?
I have a disabled partner, several mortgages & 2 of my own children that live with me, she refuses to let me have access to my child & it just seems wrong that she sees me as a cash cow!
Where can i get some genuine advice with the variation order, solicitors dont seem to want to get involved!
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The best people to speak to and they will take your case on and speak with the CSA on your behalf is the NACSA.
http://www.nacsa.co.uk/page/index.html
They cost money to speak to but not on the same level as lawyers.
If you are able to prove that the money made from the properties you own go back into the business and you do not take a cut for personal use it is unlikely that the variation order would be awarded in PWCs favour. There is an onus on the PWC to provide evidence backing up their variation application, simply stating that you own properties is not sufficient to have the application approved she would need to provide evidence that you are taking money from the profit gained on rental of them (after mortgage costs, rental agency costs, insurances, ongoing maintenance etc) , stating that you have ‘several’ holidays is not sufficient either,even if you were taking several breaks she would need to prove that these were paid for by you from your own income and they were not paid for by a generous partner, parent friend etc.