Where is the justice in this CSA decision?
I have received a letter from the CSA telling me that my ex has overpaid by £178. Although they have been informed my child maintenance has stopped they still took the money from his account.
However they want the money back FROM ME. My son has been ill all his life, having had his spleen removed and gallbladder. I did contact the CSA a number of years ago to ask why the payments have not increased in the last 18 years. I was told it was not possible to reveiw the case as it was not available anymore.
My son has not had a christmas card or a birthday card from his father ever, and although his father has a child only 9 months older then my son, he still wants the money back. I have been told by the CSA my case can not be reveiwed. I do not understand why they didn’t reveiw the case every year, but apparently I had to call them to arrange this evey year.
My parents have been helping through their pensions to halp me support my son, and all the £34.34 pw I have received from his father has gone into a savings account for my son, he is now at Uni and struggling.
I give him money every month and I am now unemployed. I paid for his driving lessons, test, and bought him a car, out of my money, which I do not mind but hey where is the justice. What can I do?
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He spend years paying CSA to help with your son , You were in tilted to that money right . now he OVER PAY YOU That is HIS money You o him if it was him that od u the £178 u be all over him wanting the money but now over way around you have a problem with it lol . His IN TILTED TO HAVE HIS MONEY BACK HIS OVER PAYED YOU
Pay it back! Your lucky to of had CSA at least he did pay! Funny how it is when it’s on the other foot! Yes you saved for him to go to uni & car & lessons but isn’t that’s what us mums do regardless of CSA payments!
I have no words… Apart from pay him back!! You’d be fast enough shouting if HE owed YOU!!!
Pay him back its his money so lucky to have got I kept one girl in school till 16 then college the other one in school till 19 and got sweet ef all of there father
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You can quit you whinging and pay his money back. Think yourself lucky that it’s only £178, most men overpay by thousands! At least he has paid for his son. What does you putting him through driving lessons and getting him a car have to do with his father overpaying by £178?
Typical money grabbing mother who thinks a father is just a money tree… Pay him back
I have read your statement 3 times and in truth while I try to be fair to both sides I do not understand your complaint.
He over paid. not your fault. but the CSA are not known for its compentance
However if he had under paid you would be complaining
so theres the justice in the CSA decision. so there is the answer to your question
Skank
“that’s what us mums do regardless of CSA payments!”
Same as us single parent men, regardless of lack of CSA payments…..
I was replying to this mother! From myself a mother! sorry if I forgot to mention men dads who also bring up kids regardless of CSA payments ! And do just a good of a job, The question was about her…
Pay him back! You jump up and down is it was the other way round ️
Dam…skank…ungrateful……selfish cow!!!!
Yer right……pay back HIS money as you sure expect him to if the boot was on the other foot.
Gonk