Where are the fathers on here?

March 28, 2013

All these posts are about how resident parents can get money from the fathers of their children. I could say I pay & always have but that is just what parents do?

I hoped this forum might help me with my son & issues around his further education, but it is a place for mother’s to vent their spleen’s. My son’s mother has married in the last year, or so, is not using her married name with HMRC or CSA is a claimint of tax credits she own’s her home & her husband has a housing association three bedroom house.

They intend to move into that and rent the other property privatley and the maddest thing is, my son lives with me the majority of the week ( more than a few hours). I am not one for dropping someone in it for the sake of ‘spite’, but really.

Where are the post’s from fathers, we really need to start balancing the info in ths forum, thanks for taking the time to read.


11 Responses to “Where are the fathers on here?”

  1. Duncan Smith on March 28th, 2013 12:29 pm

    cause women are on hear trying to find ways to get more money out of the nrp, the spineless money grabbing bastards

  2. Peter Brown on March 28th, 2013 12:48 pm

    Maybe you need to go to http://www.facebook.com/groups/204256966364149/ where there is help and adviceavailable

  3. Joel Pasley on March 28th, 2013 12:49 pm

    The trouble with posting on internet sites is the stuff you say usually gets back to the mother, then your not allowed to see your kid/s. They don’t like the truth about there ways being outed.

  4. Stevie-g George on March 28th, 2013 12:58 pm

    They should. P off to net mums this page aint for the money grabbers

  5. Author Chris Jones on March 28th, 2013 1:22 pm

    nrp should pay to support their kids but the way the csa do it is terrible and the csa was set up to chase nrps that dont pay but the csa have given the mums the power to get on with their own lives and destroy the farthers life and new relationships, there should be a balance but there is not its all for the mothers to take control of dads lives and finances. when a woman has a new partner it should be seen that he has agreed to take on the kids aswell and maintinance then drops but no the mothers with or without new partners get the best of both worlds, when i moved on i supported my new partners child and took him on, thats part of the deal with a new relationship. when my parents split my step dad was well paid and the courts took into consideration what he earned and my real dad was ordered by the court to pay my mum 10p a year for two kids yes thats right 10p a year, im 43 now and my real dad still bangs on about how he had to support me and my sister, thats the sort of dad who should be punished by the csa but the courts did have the right idea at the time, woman come with baggage but us dads always have to pay pay pay.

  6. CSAhell.com on March 28th, 2013 1:53 pm

    We’ve had some grief off Net Mums before – they do like to moan.

  7. Susan Fairbrother on March 28th, 2013 2:55 pm

    Duncan Smith,Not all of us are money grabbers. I get NOTHING from my ex husband. I don’t use OUR daughter as a weapon as she needs us BOTH in her life. I am a decent PWC and am rather annoyed you tar us all with the same brush. I am 100 per cent behind the NRP as they get treated so awfully.

  8. Daniel Claridge on March 28th, 2013 3:26 pm

    But yet us NRP get tarred with the same brush so why not

  9. Susan Fairbrother on March 28th, 2013 3:54 pm

    I am fully aware that you always get a bad press. However when I post something I am always careful how I put things.. I put the needs of our daughter first and money doesn’t even enter my head.. So we are not all money grabbing bastards.

  10. carol on March 28th, 2013 5:50 pm

    come on lads…lets not make it about genders….pwcs who are unreasonable and spiteful can be of either gender.

    but, if mumsnet was blown off the http://www…it would be a fine day indeed 😉

  11. Lisa on March 28th, 2013 6:26 pm

    Not all NRP are men though guys, Its happening to women as well that have been bullied into leaving there children by abusive or nasty ex partners,

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