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What will the CSA consider?
I’m thinking of going through the csa with my 2 oldest girls dad, as i don’t think it’s the right amount of money, so I’d just like to check , but he won’t give me any of his wage details, which is fare enough.
He’s married with a 2 year old child now , his wife works, they own there own house. The 2 year old goes to a private nuresy just wanted to no will the csa take her wage in to consideration when sorting the money for two children,and do they take into account the nuresy fees for his new child?
They don’t stay with him, he hardly sees them, and I just want what there entitled to, please can you help me?
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If he’s already paying and, as you say, hardly sees them, why do you need to go to CSA? You just think that they have more money and are trying to get your hands on it. Pathetic and greedy. He is obviously paying what he can afford to pay you and still be able to pay his own bills. What your basically saying is that you are happy to screw his life up with his new wife and kid and possibly make him lose his house, just so you can get a few extra quid. People like you make me so angry.
Good for him if he can hold down a mortgage while paying you, and if his wife is working too they would have to put their child in nursery. What ever his wife earns is none of your business!! Why should she pay for your children sorry but that’s just greedy!! Do you work?
Well said Penny! 🙂
Its 15% of his income. Im sure you may have a rough guide ti how much he earns. Say to him you have worked out how much he needs to pay you and he oays and if he doesnt then say your going to the csa. He then may agree to what yoy proposed
pathectic greedy cow
Get a job
I was asking a simple question, he don’t see his children as much as he should , once or twice a month, if that , he’s had 6 holidays this year, he’s on £77000 a year, he pays me 350 a month for the 2 children, I’ve just had to give up work due to illness , but hope a couple of weeks I’ll be back , he sold our house , the girls got not one penny, he used the money to pay for his honeymoon and deposit on his house with the woman he had a years affair with behind mine and his children’s back,so if I’m trying to be greedy and selfish what is he?? It says a lot for people on these kind of sites that
Judge people and make ridiculous comments when all I asked was a simple question , as for the wife’s money , it was a question as I didn’t want it to interfere with her money , they both work hard for there money i no that , I just need what’s entitled to them or a little extra so I didn’t have to say no not this month girls, so keep your silly comments and your well saids to someone that needs it
Pathetic and a greedy cow that’s one thing Im not , he’s been on that wage over 5 years so who’s really the greedy person here, you work out how much he should be giving the children then call me greedy,
The comment on do I work yes I maybe off sick , I’ve worked since the age of 18 I’m 38 now, it’s nice when the world has people that judge people after they read a simply question , no I didn’t want to go into my business but felt I had to, thank you Charlotte , I will do that, maybe if he thinks I’ll go to CSA he might up it a little , extra £100 would be a help, as your the only lady that has answered my question , you work out how much he should be giving the children and make the comment I’m greedy , as I’d appreciate you answer
Try reading I do work
She said she doesn’t think it’s the right amount of money, before calling her a greedy cow maybe you need to find out the facts. She might get £5 a week for all you know. And saying ‘get a job’ she might just have one, but does expect the ex to support his children as much as she does. My ex doesn’t give me a penny towards our daughter, but persists on breeding more kids. I work my arse off to support my daughter, but it would be nice to get some financial support off him seen as she his his daughter too. The Csa have been great in forcing some bum dads to pay, in my case it has always been hopeless.
Thank you Melissa , I appreciate your comment. £350 is a good amount, but take water, gas ele, food , petrol, dinner money , rent, council tax, clothes, bus pass for both, outside school activities, bits of pocket money, and I like to put some in a saving account for when there old enough to drive I can help them alittle, I do work , yes I’m off at the mo but I will be going back, as you will see I found out he’s on £77000 a year, yes he works hard for his money, but he choose to spend 11years of his life with me have two chasten then have a affair, I love my kids more than life itself I’m not being greedy at all,I don’t want to go through the CSA all I want to no
Is what the children are entitled to so we can come to a agreement together
Thank you Melissa , I appreciate your comment. £350 is a good amount, but take water, gas ele, food , petrol, dinner money , rent, council tax, clothes, bus pass for both, outside school activities, bits of pocket money, and I like to put some in a saving account for when there old enough to drive I can help them alittle, he choose to spend 11years of his life with me have two chasten then have a affair, I love my kids more than life itself I’m not being greedy at all,I don’t want to go through the CSA all I want to no
Is what the children are entitled to so we can come to a agreement together
You need to give child maintenance options a call and they will give you advice.
It’s now 16% of gross income for 2 children but 12% will be deducted from the gross for the child in his household. The partner’s income is not considered. Nor will they consider any other expenditure.
Why if you have money you want more he has a family as well to support!? And no they don’t have to take his wife’s into consideration! I never will and never have told them and that’s that!
Get a grip woman, is it jealousy over his new family or something? And no his wife doesn’t have to tell you want he earns I’ve never told them what I earn am never will!
Firstly, she wants to know what’s she receiving is the right amount for her kids, secondly, she doesn’t know do they take into account what the new partner earns, that’s why she asked!!
But all aside calling her greedy no that’s not right, no matter the circumstances she has the right for the father of her children, to be paying the right amount of money to help raise their children.
She maybe jealous that he married had another child he actually looks after and sees. As a mother I would be too, when you bring children into this world both parents should help raise their child no matter what to has happen!
So if she feels that their children have been wrongly paid the incorrect amount money, then take CSA routine!! She might find they might get more or less but least then she’ll know!!
You need to call child maintenance options for correct advice.
Child maintenance for 2 children is 16% of gross income, less 12% for the child in his household.
They will not consider a partner’s income or any expenditure.
If you contact CMS they will charge £20 to open case.
For 2 children the rate is 16% of gross income after 12% has been deduct from the gross with regards to the child in his household.
They will not consider a partner’s income or any expenditure.
Give child maintenance options a call for correct impartial advice.
Do not forget if he does not pay directly and payments have to go through CMS then you will forfeit 4% of the maintenance and he will pay an extra 20% to the CMS.