What three-year-old needs £110 a week?

August 3, 2013

i split from an ex, 2 weeks later got told she was pregnant, straight away i said i dont want a baby in a situation where where not together from day one… but noo she wanted to keep it. lots of ideas and plans to share baby etc. 5 months pregnant and she got a new fella, sudenly all these lies started appearing, like can i have 200 pounbd to buy a pram and she spent the money on a sofa.

long story short baby born and from 4 weeks she stopped access to play happy families with new fella, i never saw my son for a year till i fought for him through court inwhich she broke all the orders that were made and was never once punished

i know have twin girls and have recently discovered tat as soon as i go back to work as at present i am a sahd she will be intitled to her own income support child benifit and child tax as well as a percentage of my wage, working take and child tax so in essance my 3 year old son gets 70 quid from the state a week (which is far to high) plus what she will get from me which i believe is about 40 quid a week… so what 3 year old needs 110 pound a week lol

but because i begrudge her having a penny for making me have to go to court and contact centres for access… my idea is that when i go back to work. im gonna put kids child benifit back in my new partners name and get her to claim csa from me and say i have them 0 nights a week, so she gets a fairer and more share of the csa money

its this kinda stuff that the csa make nrp do especially again rat bastard exes

Comments

  • derek miller says:

    welcome to the world of the NRP(No Rights or Privileges) . sorry to say but a child will be used as a weapon in 90% of cases. stay strong and available to your child, but do not let your ex get the whip on!! contact your MP if you believe the CSA are mishandling your case.Check what they take on the calculators. you need to let go of what ever that state awards your ex in tax credits. its nothing to do with you, its your csa payments that matter now. and if you pay via the CSA do not give her another penny, CSA payments are for everything.

  • John says:

    What 19/20 year old needs maintenance at all. They are grown adults. can smoke, drink, get married and have children of their own at 16.

    This scandalous system has to be shut down!

  • csaworkerx says:

    Firstly, only benefit you should care about is CSA as what does her claiming IS mean to you really?

    If you stay unemployed it will be a £5 assessment, About your “plan” belive me you wont beat the system, you do realise i can see anything/everything you do? For your plan to work youd firstly need to leave the address your currently living in, Why? becuase if you have any searches done ill see them, if you suddenly stop reciveing CHB ill want to know why, Ill see where it is now being paid and if thats the same as ure address your going to be in trouble.

    oh, and if ure on a benefit dont even attempt ure “plan” i can see the bank account its paid into, i can see where that account is registerd, so unless your going to change address ( bearing in mind ure partner must remain at this address for ure “plan” to work ) then re-make a benefit claim at a new address ( which you wont be able to afford )

    in short? dont even attempt your plan, youll get done for fraud if nothing else.

    if you really want to stop ure ex claiming, stay on bens, its only a fiva.

  • Blah says:

    CSAWorkerX is right you will need some other address for your idea to work, could be a parent or brother or sister, the problem is that this then involves them in some way.

    One other way to deal with the csa is to be self employed or have your own business as then you pay a salary to your current partner for “support services” such as book keeping and have an expenses account for your own day to day expenditure. They have a criminal compliance unit which I went through but they are stuck as they work everything out on your own taxable income so in the end I got a nil valuation perfectly legitimately.

  • Lisa says:

    OMG another bullshit story from csaworkerx, firstly the CSA worker above cannot see your bank account, secondly she cannot see your plan, thirdly she cannot do anything to you, the only people that can do this are criminal compliance unit, shop floor idiots as this one above obviously dont realise we have got the knowledge to use against them and we aer doing, She cannot do searches on your property either, she is a total liar (all csa workers are) What your doing here is not abiding by your civil service code of conduct and as the last CSA worker that came here giving bullshit advice to the people you have put in this position had her residential address posted for all to see, if this is what you want carry on spouting your crap, we dont mind just more ammo to fire at you when we have all your details, ip address gives trace back to where you live, and we know you cant access social media at the place of work,

  • Craig says:

    Only people that commit fraud is the CSA staff and BTW thank you for your confirmation that you can see what gets paid into bank accounts because that actually helps my case regarding the CSA staff committing fraud against me 🙂 Your time will come you can all hide behind your anonymity for so long, but we are on to you scum like a tramp on hot chips. We have photos and many residential addresses of CSA staff. So if you continue to strip people of their human rights then you have no human rights either. You want to hope and prey we do not get your IP

  • Sally says:

    I feel like I am on a roundabout…. One CSA liar goes away and another one takes its place… You can beat the system because there are always loopholes… My partner pays his ex £5 per week and we live a very happy life that includes holidays and a decent lifestyle… How did we do it CSA scab??! We PLAYED the system at its own game….and won 😀 all our assets are in my name only, he is a student and I have a good income… No matter what false arrears the come up with, no matter what they say… They will NEVER be able to take away our home or security…

    So before you come out with any more crap and lies CSA scum…. Get your Facts right… Is it any wonder why we all hate CSA staff when it’s people like you we have to deal with…

  • Lisa says:

    @ Sally, this above idiot honestly has no idea what they are talking about, the criminal compliance unit can do only this, the shop floor staff takes them a year to do a child benefit check, really, this above idiot and i will specify IDIOT needs to get a grip and give people some honest information that will help them get away from CSA and have a life not being stripped of there human rights and lives tragically cut short because they couldnt take anymore, by the way we have also beaten the system, the CSA cant take anything from my family either, i was clever, they play the game, i play it harder but in my case the only loser was the PWC

  • Lisa says:

    @ csawworkerx, we are also fightng for a change in the law, entrapment as it should be called is where a woman traps a man into having a child thats unwanted, ultimatly the woman has the upper hand where having a child is concerned, we wont put up with this bollocks anymore, DNA testing should also be carried out before any money is giving to dirty little benefit tramps that chase a maybe father to be a walking bank for 20 years

  • Craig says:

    We are also going to start paying visits to CSA employees homes so be warned

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