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best bet is talking to a lawyer to get everything in writing as along im all for dad seeing their kids , i hate when they fuck with their heads . if u go the right way about it it do less harm talk to a lawyer u can get a gree 30-1hr with most places now
No!!!!
My ex does this and it upsets the kids, i find it horribly selfish ! he absolutely refuses any set times / days : there’s no consistency at all he goes for months without seeing them or even talking to them and then wants them for a weekend out of the blue. Children need to know they ARE going to see him again and when, and he needs to stick to it !! 99% of my arguments with him this past year have been about him messing the kids around and admitted he does it just to piss me off …
Best to get things agreed and done via a solicitor it’s no good for the child or yourself of he then chooses to not come etc then it’s his loss but no don’t jump to his tune.
Exactly why it’s best up have it agreed upon via a solicitor so then if the other person then chooses to be a twat it’s their own fault what comes next
It’s hard not to ‘jump to his tune’ when the boys are crying to see their dad, I drive a 3 hour round trip to drop them off. Boys have to come first – no way am I ever going to stoop to his level !
His loss if he screws with his kids heads, but honestly, what the hell is a solicitor going to do ? If the guy don’t want to see his kids for whatever reasons, no one can make him, what’s the solicitor going to do….smack his hand lol….fine him….put him in jail…lol…..get real the lot of you. No action by any body will help here. The child still won’t get to see his/her dad, so what’s the point in getting them involved.
Gonk