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No you shouldn’t. Come to an arrangement, forget the csa. Would you really need the money if they awarded you any from your ex? It would be a small amount and the csa bring nothing but misery, forget the money, having the children mire than 50% of the time is payment enough. I would pay to have my son that much.
All I would say, is, are you on good terms with your ex-wife?
If you are not, then she is taking you for a ride, I’ve been there.
You should be classed as the ‘parent with care’. Get writing (always in writing) to the csa and get your payments stopped. If It’s pretty much a 50/50 split (and you are on reasonable terms with the ex) ditch the csa, if your wife is taking you for a ride, start fighting your corner.
Post a response and I’ll let you know about the long process you are going to have to go through.