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Omg I’m so ashamed at being a woman when I read stories like this.
Hopefully Karma will get her one day.
Do you have nothing that shows regular payments to her ?
this is a tricky one, but the first thing I would do is lodge a formal complaint if you are not happy – this is the number one subject they receive complaints on….. So you are not alone.
The CSA have the jurisdiction to overrule any private arrangement, but this should only come into force on the date that she applies to the csa, not before, however you better get prepared and list all of the payment you have made to her ready to present to the csa.
u have to show ur bank info to them showing them you payed her every month take to a lawyer
If you have a private agreement and you can prove that the amounts were for CM, you need to print off your bank statements and high light the payments you have made to the ex, also ensure you blank out all other relevant info your account number sort code etc etc, I would say come and join CSA ripp offs find us on face book, were you will get some sound advice
Mines clearly marked from the bank states maintainance. . Some woman are sharks…
I found myself in a very similar situation. CSA would NOT accept bank statements as proof of payment under any circumstances.
The fact my ex subsequently sold the matrimonial home and made a clear £70,000 profit (of which I was entitled to nothing) also counted for nowt. As far as I am concerned that represented a ‘gift’ from me of £35,000.
Every time I argue a point with CSA they threaten me with Court. They’ve had me there twice previously and their spokesperson has simply bullshitted their way to get the decision they wanted. They accused me of not paying and yet I had the receipts for every payment I ever made into the CSA account. I wasn’t even allowed to show them to the court because I was told they were ‘not relevant’. If I wanted to appeal it would cost £500 which I simply do not/did not have.
They are Government sponsored blackmailers. Simple as that.