Very one-sided in favour of the female
I have a 13 year old daughter me and my x partner split up when she was 4 we was never married and my name is on the birth certificate she has my surname but last year my x changed it to a double barrel name with out my consent
I do not pay through the CSA because I will always pay for my child not matter what but I feel that the system doesn’t work for people like me my x partner has always threatened me with this but she also knew I was very proud and would always pay for mine and my families way in life she had in the past tried but I have always paid over the odds and will always continue too when I went to the citizen advise for advise but they couldn’t help because they hadn’t any experience of my side of the CSA I once called the CSA to ask for advise but was informed they couldn’t advise me because there wasn’t a case opened I asked for a case to be opened I never heard a think since from the CSA ?
The CSA in my case seems to be very one sided against in favour of the female which in todays world of equal rights to me seems very unfair I can understand that it must be very hard to account for everybody but I would look forward to seeing if the system could be improved to help people in the future not just one side regard Rob
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She can’t legally change your daughters surname without your consent
If it’s a double barrel to her name barreld with the farthers yes she can change that.. she just has to prove the child has used this name for more then 12 months Paul Akroyd a name not known to the family like another man’s name u need permission from both parents in active contact within two Years.. if he hasn’t seen the child for two yrs his pr can be withdrawn to some pr to the mother so the mother can change it
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She didn’t need your consent pre 2003 as unmarried fathers had to apply to court for parental responsibility which unfairly so in my opinion the mother automatically has….but after 2003 if a man is on a birth certificate but not married he now has responsibility and the mother needs permission to change a childs name. If its any comfort to you the childs birth certificate will never change unless an adoption has taken place and she can revert back if she wants to.