The mother can live a life of wealth but I’m about to be homeless

April 24, 2013

The CSA have made my live hell since day one i now have no money to pay my rent so i am going to lose my home in about 2 months time. my x has remarried and has banned the kids from speaking to me the csa do not care what happens to dads. i have explainend to csa that i suffa from a condition called sleep apnea and more stress has mad it worse but all they said was we dont care where is the seems the mother can live a life of wealth but i have to be homeless well done csa


8 Responses to “The mother can live a life of wealth but I’m about to be homeless”

  1. Melinda Bas on April 24th, 2013 5:33 pm

    Whilst i can sympathise with you regarding your housing situation (i have often struggled to keep up with my rent too), you can’t really bring in your ex’s finances into the equation, that has nothing to do with the fact that you need to provide for your child/ren. What would be your argument if she had no money whatsoever? I know many parents who struggle on a daily basis, some living in hostels with their children and no help or support from the nrp….. an d incredibly, they don’t ever mention their ex…… they are too busy for that. Best wishes.

  2. Terry Norris on April 24th, 2013 9:39 pm

    F***k off Bas you make me want to spit venom in your face…this guys not talking about not providing for his kids…HES TALKING ABOUT FAIRNESS YOU DUMB BITCH!!!!!EX’S FINANCES NOT HAVING ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT…SO SHE LIVES THE LIFE OF LUXURY AND THAT DONT MATTER…STILL BLEED HIM DRY? ….YOU C^^T…Grrrrrrrrr

  3. Terry Norris on April 24th, 2013 9:45 pm

    if shes lives the life of luxury with a new bloke?? you telling me that he should not be the main provider in that situation? Just bleed the ex for cash cash cash just cause hes the father and may not have wanted this situation that the ex may have put him in? You may have an axe to grind Bas..with your own past…but don’t assume it gives you right to sharpen your blades at others…you make me sick

  4. Terry Norris on April 24th, 2013 9:54 pm

    it takes 2 to make a child…and 2 should support that child EQUALLY in the event of the parents splitting up….what you are condoning is by your comments here is the NRP should pay pay pay REGARDLESS of the PWC’s financial situation and not taking into account her needs regardless.So to sum up.she has 2-3 hols a yr,the car,the benefits,the rich boyfriend…etc etc..but the nrp has fuck all and never will whilst the ex bleeds him of cash ushing the kids as the cow

  5. Terry Norris on April 24th, 2013 10:05 pm

    that’s the reality of a lot of you women using the kids as cash cows to line your own pockets with full support from the csa…..I don’t need a government agency FORCING me to pay for my child…I can and would do it without their assistance and be far more obliging above and beyond my call of duty to my child…its remarks from people like you Bas and the csa robbery that drives the wedge deeper between parents and kids.You think its fair that a nrp is forced to hand over cash to an ex and her new partner who works full time and at the same time the nrp is not entitled to ask..let alone demand to know how or even IF his money is actually being spent on his child and not subsidising his ex’s and her partners fags,drink and whatever else they might piss his money on???

  6. Terry Norris on April 24th, 2013 10:19 pm

    I brought my kid into the world and she was I thought her mother planned as well,where we both brought her up…my ex decides she don’t want me around anymore and takes my baby away to live with another bloke…I have nothing she wants anymore..she don’t want me anymore…but she sure as hell wants my money…..WRONG WRONG WRONG…get on with your life…without me…I have nothing you want anymore…her words!….so have some dignity and self respect and stop leaning on your ex to top up your new life.I am being persecuted Bas…my ex also has another child who’s father pays jack shit towards…she to this day has NEVER filed a claim with the csa against him….there’s fairness for for you….so stop spouting your shit about right for the kids…they are a smoke screen used by mothers and the csa the rob fathers of hard earned cash to pay back the treasury for what it hands out to benefit cheating ex’s

  7. Jasson M on April 25th, 2013 10:35 am

    Personally if the PWC re-marries i think they should be re-assessed, and their NEW family income should be taken into consideration. It goes back to the same thing..their is NO fairness to the CSA system. Melinda, the man his paying…he is not allowed to see his kids, but she will gladly take his money. Ms Bas Your responce was in poor taste.

    Personally fella, quit your job (if you have one) and live of the state. It seems it’s the NEW way of living these. Or go part-time, and get a top up off the welfare state. The CSA will never give a f*** about you, or any othe NRP for that matter. Good luck : )

  8. Gonk on April 26th, 2013 12:38 pm

    Jasson m

    Well said…mate….bas…is clueless. I take back my foul language to you…but hell…you know how to rattle a catch with some of the bollocks you come out with Melinda Bas

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