The judge just told me to get a job

June 11, 2015

My ex has not paid a penny since he gave up work 16yrs ago, we split when she was less than 6 months old but he decided that he wanted to be an actor – and became self employed – for years he would sell his house and move on – he married and had two more kids – but hey because his wife supports him he is not liable for any form of support – she is 16 now and still to this date he has not paid a penny – however he thinks that buying her a scooter for her 16th he has made up for it – it costs more than £2000 to raise a child.

The CSA took it to tribunal and all the judge said was “get a job to support your family”, he still did not have to prove that he had no income and now I hear that he is working as a security guard for the studios but guess what still nil assessment – how come what are they doing to look into this – nothing!!!!!


5 Responses to “The judge just told me to get a job”

  1. Jay Sheard on June 11th, 2015 11:41 am

    Oh dear. Shame for you.

  2. Mark Perkins on June 11th, 2015 11:43 am

    Have you or the child gone without ?

  3. Daniel Claridge on June 11th, 2015 12:16 pm

    Oh stop being so jealous and bitter as I bet no doubt he supported his daughter while she was with him.

  4. Sarah Louise White on June 12th, 2015 7:58 am

    Whether u work or not . took two parents to make a child two should support a child .. He’s obviously walked away from reading this so it was his choice to walk away .. So he should still provide for her its his child aswel .

  5. gonk on June 13th, 2015 1:21 pm

    @Sarah Louise White
    Yes 2 to make a child but my ex decided she didn’t want me around any more to raise my child and be a dad to her…she wanted someone else to do that and so moved in with him, so yes…two should support a child….those two, not me, she don’t live with me and I am not responsible for her any more, her mothers choice. I am right am I not ?

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