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Payments are based on their income not on yours or your outgoings so hate to say it be grateful your getting something to help a lot aren’t
Like the lady says above its his income not yr out goings and any extra activites you send yr child too r choice not his so pay for them and why shud he foot yr childcare bill when its yr choice to put yr child in there ? And do u pay him part of yr wages no so be grateful
Cruel world is the split up game — but the child must not be used has a tool. He / or she needs mum & dad ..
With what you have written, you are making yourself sound like one of those evil, spiteful, vengeful, man hating woman that frequent this group seeking to wreak their revenge on the NRP for daring to even be still alice after splitting up with the PWC. You have already said the NRP is a “he”, and you mention using the “Online Calculator” to see how much YOU can get…… Shouldn’t you be sitting down together like grown up adults and discussing with each other, what it reasonably costs to keep the child per week, that is food wise and a proportion of the housing costs, then simply divide it in 2, so you both are responsidle for 50%. Or are you going to take heed of the advice that the spiteful man haters that will try and manipulate you to become twisted in the same was that they are?
I’ve had no help for 6 whole years had my daughter when I was 19 never been out of work n always had my own house..think urself lucky that u get anything love!!
As a single parent you will get most of your child care paid for tax credits ect your x partner won’t get any of that help .
How much of your earnings would you give him, after you’ve finished training & he’d helped out with the childcare costs?
As a father he only needs to pay for the upbring of the child. Not your childcare. But it is hard and the csa need to change in lots of ways The law needs to be changed and its not hard for them to use their brain. and this is one reason why. Fathers do need to pay for their children but the way in which payments are worked out needs to change. Like payments are worked out after LIFE bills and taken into account first like food rent etc on the fathers side. Then they also needs to look at the full household income of the mother and take that into account so the money doze go to mums who really do need it not mums who want the use it to pay their new car off why you cant pay your rent.. They need to stop taking into account working tax credits and child tax credits on the fathers side as an income also. Also if the mother will not let you see you kids you should pay less. It the mother gets married or moves in a new partner then that’s a family unit and a parent who hardy sees their child should not pay a full amount. Like this if you agree and for this to change everyone being used as a money cow needs to come together to have there vice heard.
Being a student and a single mum you are going to get all sorts of handouts and benefits so that the taxpayer can pay to bring up your child so any extra you get from the NRP can be spent on activities etc.
Don’t forget he also has to pay for food, household bills etc in order to create a new home for his daughter to come to. I assume you would like him to have enough money to live on?
Think about the amount the average person has left after bills each month – it’s not much, probably less than you have worked out ‘you’ should be getting.
HE HAS A LIFE AS WELL!
Here here Michael , I am now working more hours and not claiming tax credits as csa was giving my soon to be husbands X a % of my child credits I have 1 daughter 12 and iv always had a job ( lucky I know) and hubby’s X has 5 kids 2 different dads never worked a day in her life brand new council house 2004 car , we both have 2003 cars and struggle to pay mortgage with 2 wages coming in and she doesn’t let him c kids for past 4 years the law in csa needs to change .
another arsewipe that thinks the ex should pay what she wants not what he can afford,tough shit lovey.What he pays is based on his earnings not on what you want him to pay..get a second job and shut up
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The NRP has bills too you know or does he have to be cold, without food and a home? What a greedy woman you are You get tax credits and child benefit and 1/3 of child care paid yet still you want more out of your ex. Its Unbelievable on how many woman leaches there are in this country.