Surely you would want your kids to have a great relationship with their family?
I was married to a wonderful man that had a daughter with his previous wife,he did nothing wrong, but his ex wife started an affair that ended in her marrying this person ( while really ill, she starts this with his best friend).
I met him in 2000, when getting my car cleaned, i had a year old daughter that i refused to go down that road, we are all allowed to fall out of love with our partner, but as any parent male or female, that doesnt stop us loving our wee ones, and the ones as an extended family.
Surely would you not want your children to have a wonderful relationship with their family, and able to move on and be happy, than this rubbish, it sickens me to my stomach, and 98.72 that claim csa are women, disgrace.
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@CSAHell csa are blood ducking men hating parasites
Both parents have responsibilities to their children with regards to all aspects of their lives which includes financial support and trying to maintain good relationships.
I agree that some PWC are just purely out to financially screw their ex and use the children as cash cows however the majority do not.
I personally dislike using the CSA however my ex decided after he started a new relationship that he didn’t want to pay maintenance for our child, which I later found out was due from pressure from his other half.
I promote and encourage our daughter to have a relationship with her father, however, this is mostly over the phone as he decided that he would only like to see her once a year. The is mainly due to my ex’s current partner actively disliking our daughter and my ex preferring to placate them.
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Bella1988 – I guess you really can’t force someone to have a relationship with his or her child(ren). It’s his loss! Hopefully your ex-partner will change his mind and do his level best to spend quality time with his beautiful daughter. I commend you for trying to promote this but I have to say, in this country most PWC’s discourage it.
He does, however, have a financial responsibility to support his child, whether he wants see her or not.
I do believe, speaking as a specialist CSA lawyer, that there should be a correlation between the payment of Child Support and access to children. This would give absent fathers a greater incentive to pay child support. Unfortunately, though, even with a court order in place, mothers often breach the same and refuse fathers access/proper access to their children.
Finally, if PWC’s and NRP’s work together for the sake of their children, this would dispense with the need for the CSA who are ripping off both parties. They bombard us with a smoke screen called child poverty but that is all it is, a smoke screen. They are putting NRP’s into debt, forcing the sale of their homes and thereby driving them into poverty. In many cases they do not pay the PWC, driving them into financial difficulties. The CSA are robbing us to increase the coffers of the government and European Union.
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