She had already ruined my life, now she’s trying to destroy it totally

September 21, 2013

Greed, hate or both? Early this month the ex had me convicted of harassment finally getting the restraining order she has been pushing for, for nearly a year. Convicted because I kept asking to see my daughter, not seen for 6 months.

As a result I lost my job. I informed the csa who said let us know when you start claiming benefits so we can deduct £5 a week. Not exactly compassionate but I expected as much.

As soon as the ex realised £200 a month will go down to £20 she tried to be friends on facebook knowing if I responded I would be jailed for a minimum of 3 months.

Is this right? Fair? What difference does it make. She had already ruined my life in every way, now wants to destroy it totally. Would I of needed to beg to see my daughter if it wasn’t for the csa? I doubt it. Everybody loses this time, especially my little girl.

Comments

  • Fred says:

    I feel for you, I have or should I say had 2 children which ex is married to bloke who is loaded she is destroying me. Now the csa are involved for only 1 year, previous 5 were fine. My oldest now says she hates me and wont talk to me and the youngest wont come but will speak on the phone.

    Keep going no matter what, pay for them and stay away. One day they will find you to seek the truth, then your ex will get her comeuppance. until then stay as strong as you can and await the chosen day.

  • Sally says:

    You should get in contact with your local MP, what is happening to you is wrong…

  • Bella says:

    Yes I agree with Sally, write down your full story for your local MP. They are surprisingly supportive.

    There may be something helpful on this site for you too: http://www.fnf.org.uk/

    Can you not go to court for access via a contact centre whereby you won’t need contact with your ex?

    Also, could you not use her friend request as proof of her contacting you after the order?

  • lewis says:

    THE CSA CAN SHUT UP I HATE EVERY SINGLE ONE, THE STUPID LIABILITIES, CSA IS REDICULUS RUINING PEOPLE LIVES THE GAYS

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