Paying CSA from day one isn’t enough
Ive got a daughter who is 5 years old and ive paid the csa from day one which i thought was fair.i been working more hours at work to take her out for the day and now i had a letter from the csa i have to pay 2000 pounds in arrears which firstly was 160 now 400 pounds i got to find i feel so tired ive bought my daughter christmas and birthdays for 5 years plus csa.come on some one help us please.
also my ex has a son which is 3 years old and ive helped him along the way spending xmas and birdays and that on my daughter live the csa still do not care .i really trying my best i feel like giving up.ime a nurse who looks after mentally ill people who go though hard times and i help them to and this is what the world offers the good dads out there.plz all the dads we need to make this a fair place i want to be able to give my child what i wrk hard for not to give it to someone that goes on holidays and nights out all the time.csa wont look for the boys father they told me nothing to do with me.i been there and ive had no thanks.it makes me want to end my live becuse i aint got a future ive only had 1 child and they want 400 hundread a month its a fucking joke.
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it is a fucking joke. I remember telling the CSA i would have to move out and sell my car to afford what they was asking from me and guess what the lady said? “Better start getting the bus” Which is stupid because there’s no buses the time i get up for work. The only way i got around this, is thankfully i spoke to my ex and pleaded for her to take this private and we came up with a sum which is happy for the both of us. But if your ex you had the kid with is a money grabbing fuck, then goodluck :/
Csa don’t care about you being a great dad a decent human being or a reliable payer. They are there only to collect money and it’s always the ones that do pay that become the easy targets to screw more money from. Csa are the lowest form of scum possible making up phantom arrears just utter bullshit! You need to somehow cut out the Csa
And have private arrangement with your ex. If not your working life will not be worth it as you will have no quality of life. I’m gonna end up paying til I retire unless things change and is hard to accept.
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They NEED to be brought to task over arrears 90% of the time it’s there mistake!
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