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I’m afraid you won’t get any nice replies on here except replies from absent fathers and their new partners slagging off mothers with care.
I advise you gou for private agreement or shared care. Csa don’t care about anyone involved in your case and will only make everyones life hell x
Oh will you just stop Jill. It’s not that father’s don’t want to pay, It’s the amount that CSA force father’s to pay.
Does your ex husband see his children?
There is some Fathers in the wrong and also some mothers in the wrong and the only ones suffering are the children in the middle for the Fathers that think they shouldn’t make any contribution to their children’s up bringing then you are wrong for the mothers who think there children don’t need a dad and want to ruin their exs by taking more money than that is needed then you are in the wrong I know there is different circumstances to every case but in every care there is an innocent child
Maybe Jill thinks the whole world revolves around her! Stuck up madam! Not all fathers are bad but some mothers are bitches when it comes to money!
I’m sure he would provide for his children if he was sure they were getting it! Like buying clothes and shoes! Why can’t fathers just produce receipts to the value they assess? That way you can be sure it’s being spent on them! Is it cos they want the mother to either stay on benefits or just work part time or cash in hand?
My my there really are some bitter people out there!
My only point is that I didn’t make our children alone, they want for nothing because I provide them with my full time job ! I would however like a little support for my children so that they can have extras. Not because I’m money grabbing oh contra. What has been agreed would pay for weekly school dinners! It is about the principal that should you bring a child into this world then you should provide for that child/children.
I am aware there are mothers/fathers out there that will use said contribution else were. But I dear am not one. I am nothing but open with my children (two are teens).
I’m not self employed and always paid my way to my
Boys upbringing. Through her choice my ex decided I’m not allowed to see my boys who don’t even regard me as dad. I gave her the house after the relationship breakdown as she had custody. Unknown to me the house was repossessed a couple of years later and auctioned she never took my name off the deeds and then declared bankrupsy wich left me being chased down for 27k shortfall on the morgage. As well as the unfair way that the csa has operated. So in my case bollox to it I’m going self employed
Shut your pie hole Jill betterton…..you don’t know WTF you are banging on about.
I for one would happily pay, at the moment, I unhappily pay because I believe that the Nrp should have control of what he is assed to pay his children and be able to spend it on his children. I OBJECT to having being forced to hand it over to a bloody money grabbing ex to top up her and her partners incomes. Why the HELL should I not have a say in how my money is being spent? The system is exploited by many women because of it. I know there’s no way my ex is spending the £300 a month forced out of me, on my daughter, lol…I bet she only gets about £50 of that money,the rest buys the mother and her partner, nights out,fags,new shoes etc etc . They both work, she gets all the benefits as we’ll , my money probably pays for their new car or holidays. So you JILL BETTERTON wipe the shit out of your eyes. Most dads have no problem paying for their kids…like me, most of them have a problem paying it to the dammed ex.
Gonk
@ Simon Scott
You are sooo bloody right with your comment…..you see Jill betterton……seems it’s not just me and thousands of other dad’s that think the same.
Gonk