No contact with unwanted child but I still have to pay CSA
CSA really p*sses me off how they think what they are doing is right. I had a stupid one night stand, both wanted an abortion however she changed her mind and wanted to keep it. I didn’t but as the women she gets to choose.
If it was the other way around she would get rid of it regardless of my thoughts. So I really feel that at this point we as men should have a right to say we do not want the baby but if the mother does then I will not have any financial part in its life! Now several years down the line, i’ve been paying the damn CSA, paid court fees to see the little one but her and her grandparents were such d*ckheads they even said they would do everything so I can’t see her.
To be honest, i’ve got my own life and but paying this CSA takes the piss because I didnt want the bloody baby and men don’t have the choice to abort but women do. God the CSA really pee me off but good to get it off my chest!
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men have the choice to not have a one night stand, or use protection and not leave it up to the woman!
it’s the child I feel sorry for in this case!
You disgust me! You had the choice not to have a one night stand, you also had the choice to wear a condom! If you chose to be irresponsible knowing that having unprotected sex could result in a child then you DO NOT have the choice to NOT be responsible both morally and financially to that child. Grow up!
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You really are a disgrace lad, there’s Fathers out there fighting tooth and nail to no avail to see their children on this site (me included) and then a moron like you posts something ridiculous like this!!! You had the choice not to have a one night stand and the choice to wear protection so i really don’t know what your complaint is? Do you not know how children are made or something? I actually agree with the mother not allowing contact as i don’t think any child should have somebody as vile as you in their life!!!! She probably knows that should you have contact you’d probably tell the child you wanted it aborted just to get back at the Mother. I hope you never get contact which is something i never thought I’d say cause your child would be better off without you!! And damn right you should pay, you didn’t have a choice about the abortion but like i said earlier you did have the option of not having a one night stand and the option of wearing protection. I hope you’ve learnt your lesson now cause if not you’ll have more kids and a selection of STIs to go along with them, good riddance
ALWAYS USE CONDOMS!!! May this be a lesson to you! And of course the women has the last say after all it is her body and abortion isn’t something that should be taken lightly-it’s a very evasive and complicated surgery!
I never agree with women stopping dads having anything to do with their kids as my partner and I have been fighting he’s ex through court for access but after reading you call your daughter an ‘it’ and ‘bloody baby’ i’m really not surprised, they obviously know the kind of dick you are!!!
Should have kept it in ur pants then, shouldnt u!! Oh so hard done by. Get over yourself and start acting like a man!! Me, me, me, ur pathetic, nice for that little girl to know that you never wanted the “bloody baby”. TRY USING A CONDOM THICKO
So a woman has a 1 night stand, STUPIDLY doesn’t use a condom, gets pregnant, decides it isn’t the right time to have a child and decides to have an abortion … all done, no problem. He might want to keep a child, but it doesn’t matter.
Same situation, but a man … he should pay for the next 20 years because SHE …. yes, THE WOMAN unilaterally decided to have the baby. If you decide to keep it on your own, you should have to pay for it on your own.
There were 3 points at which you made the decision to keep it:
1. during you night stand when you didn’t use a condom.
2. for the next 3 days when you didn’t get the morning-after pill.
3. for the next few months when you refused to have an abortion.
THE MAN had 1 point at which to make a decision, the rest of it was up to the woman.
essentially, it’s a theft. You should never keep a child when you’re not in a relationship anyway – the child is already starting out in a broken home – what kind of person does that make you? Selfish. The WOMAN has made a decision that affects 3 lives – hers, the child’s and the fathers.
I’m a woman and I believe in the right to choose – but use your head and make an intelligent, responsible decision. Stop bringing unwanted (yes, unwanted, because the TWO people who made the child and the TWO people who end up paying for it did NOT agree that the child should be born!) into this already over-populated world. We have a population crisis on our hands. instead of bringing more children into it, do something useful and get a job and do something to help the world we live in now. Have a child with someone who loves you and the child and doesn’t moan about having to pay for it. You’re all Morons!