Never been allowed to see my son
The day my son was born I was not involved from day one.
I was not told straight away by my ex-partner when my son was born, he was in a critical condition in intensive care. I was eventually told and was there for them both until they come out of hospital. When we were at home I started to notice a change with the way we were with each other mainly on here part, then after 4 month she told me she didn’t want to be with me any more. I went back home to my parents and my ex-partner used to bring my son for month to see me and his Nan but all of a sudden it all changed and she stopped visiting with my son. Then I got home one day and she was just leaving my mum’s and told me that I was never going to see my son ever again and that I was dead as far as he was concerned. now he is 14 in November and its been 11 years now since I have seen him.
I pay CSA and have done for over 3 years direct from my wages but still I do not see him and she will not let me. the only way I will ever see my son is if I pay thousands to solicitor. She has married and had a daughter but I have married and had a son and daughter but one day would like to and have tried to contact him but to no avail.
Aren’t some women heartless to stop there own flesh and blood from keeping in touch with each other.
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why not raise a contact order to see him. It amazes me that people seemingly think the only way you can do things through court is through a solicitor.
It really isn’t rocket science and as long as you can read and write you should be fine raising a court order to re-impose contact.
Yes many women are heartless.
I had a contact order with certain provisions agreed to by the judge. The childrens mother repeatedly broke the order, upsetting the children. I contacted the Judge in question and was told to return to court for another order, costing more money!
Nothing at all was done about the mother breaking the order, and in the end I gave up seeing my children because it was in their best interests, as the mother was always causing problems.
I see them now as they are adults, and expalin to them how I was forced out of their lives by a control freak mother. They fully understand that it was not my fault and now that they are adults recognize that their mother was wrong in doing what she did!
I would and have never done something this heartless I hope that your son realises what his mother is like and that you can have some sort of relationship
Hi John,
I would never give up and i would take her to court repeatedly if she broke the order. Before long if it continued say 5/6 times i would simply raise a residency order against for the children citing that because contact has been repeatedly broken.
Provided they live nearby this would be a high possibility of it being granted.