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My friend’s life has been ruined by the CSA
Hi,
I have a friend who is left only £150 a week out of his wages, He has a heart condition , depression and a drink problem due to the CSA and what they have reduced him too.
he has to rent a room which is £80.00 a week , pay train fares to work and feed himself which means he usually has no money for 4 days a week to eat.
he has tried to kill himself twice and for a guy that was an olympic class athlete before the CSA ruined his life it is such a shame to see him in this condition.
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Wish I had £150 a week to live. I’m lucky to have that a month after I’ve paid my CSA & mortgage etc.
£150 a WEEK? That’s plenty to live on considering he’s on his own! I’m with my unborn child’s father and would not even go through CSA as I see what they do to him with his other son. We’re lucky if we have £100 to live on a week for petrol and food and that’s for 2 of us. If you ask me he’s quite lucky
We all feel the pain, I’m sure the thousands out there who are also suffering alcohol, drug, depression, anxiety all brought on by the CSA.
I also felt depression, stress, my job because of the CSA but i now use http://www.nacsa.co.uk to help.
There is only so much we can take I’m sure wed all like to visit the CSA local offices and demonstrate!
we need everyone to make a stand.
ok lets hop[e that this helps:
You are not alone on this one. Im sure terry scott have been there too.
So my advise
Check that to see if you can claim housing benefit. qualifying may help and it dont cost a penny to make a claim.
and
write to the CSA to see if they can reduce the payments. Dont write and tell them that you are on the brink of suicide. they wont care because they can claim off the corpse with the consent of the PWC. No instead tell them that you will be forced to quit your job. the CSA will pay attention because if you claim jobseekers or a similar benefit you will only pay 5 per week. This generates a loss of 145 per week to the CSA over a year thats alot.
Now suicide is pointless. and as a dad you cant afford to lose it. see a doctor. Ok there maybe some pill popping to be done or even counselling but your kid/s look up to you. hence you cant afford to lose it.
now listen to this.
in your chest beats a heart with a regular rytham. thats your inner war drum. all the while that drum beats you can fight. all the while your lungs can feel air you can fight. Every morning you wake up its a victory to your side.
Sometimes fighting is done with guns or fists this fight to fight with your feet. you stand. and when you get hit you stand when you feel that this is your last breath you stand. You stand because when they run out of puff and they have thrown everything that they have at you. You will still stand. but after you have with stood it all they cant do anymore. then the fight is won.
I ve been standing for 3 years now. I have heard and seen every dirty trick that they have yet still I am here so but I can do this.
I know many poeple the same. The csa dont care about the fathers. The csa should be stopped and scrapped. We should all get together and burn the csa to the floor. The csa dont work so y cant they just scrap it for fuck sake. Cant they c wot they are doing. This country is so fucked up. If they scrap the csa then the mothers wont pop them out so much and the fathers wont have they kids turned against them and the fathers can have a life to. Just coz the mothers had a kid dont meen the csa should rip us apart . But they bloody do. Please can someone c sence and scrap the csa before something els goes wrong….. … Do you think im making sence here.. Your mp should be able to help you so if they dont then burn your mps house down to the floor. If we all done this then they should stop the csa and look at wot the fathers side of things are to.
Andrew jones, please don’t tar all women with the same brush!!! There are good and evil regarding both parents. There are women who do what you are saying, deliberately getting pregnant to get money off men (but men there is a way round this, put a bloody condom on the end if it!!) and there are men who choose no longer to be in a marriage, walk out on their wife and children and refuse to financially support them!! Always two sides to a story!!!
I have 3 children and I live on a budget each week and still manage to live. I have a house and bills to pay. I don’t claim any benefits so dont know how people throw away money on crap
Yes jill totally agree with you xx
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