My ex lives a livish life while I get £21 a month for our kids – how is this fair?
My ex left in 2010 for a whole year he paid for a van we both had that still had finance. after a year he stopped payment and took the van off me. I have six kids, I went through the CSA and have been in receipt of £21.81 per month in support.
My ex just had a lavish wedding, runs two cars, had specialised number plates made, has holidayed in Mexico twice as well as another three holidays, is renovating his home putting on an extension fitting a new bathroom and kitchen. Yet his tax return is a nil return.
So csa states my kids get £21.81 a month. I’ve contacted the inland revenue with regards to suspected tax evasion. How unfair this system is. I’ve opted out of the csa. It’s pointless. 21.44 doesn’t even buy a pair if decent shoes its an insult.
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Wot the fuck do you want. You have the kids now leave him be and move on with your life. Being without 6kids a hard so y fuck him off for. Get off your big fat but and do wot any mother does. Find a fucking job. Blowjobs are fine but you need a tidy job with constant money coming in. If you cant look after your kids then y have them. They not like dogs that when you finish with them you can hand them to someone els. Lazy mother snt the word. You must be big fat and round that dont makena sound.lol
What job do you do at present? What has csa got to do with ur x lifestyle- if he/they work hard for there money, don’t be bitter! Work hard too!!!
Wow what a jealous person you are
£21 per month but £80 + child benefit per week plus tax credits plus god knows what else. Think your self lucky some of us get nothing off our ex’s and then get screwed over when csa takes tax credits as income for my partner to give to his ex.
I can’t believe some of the terrible comments by people here, especially the insults by Andrew. It’s not even the first time i see this. How can Admin of this page allow this? Having six kids to look after is HARD WORK and if an ex does have a lavish lifestyle with two cars etc and only pay 21 pounds for six children, something does not seem right. I do not know the specific circumstance but surely it is inappropriate to insult someone and tell them to get off her butt on the assumption she does nothing….clearly some men don’t have a clue as to what it takes to raise a child, let alone six children given the outrageous responses here.
If he hasnt sense and is on CS2 he will work part time while his new wife is the new top earner…stops greedy bitches like u screwing them over
So she gets CB/tax credits for the 6 kids what does he get ???? Nothing
He’d better get nothing in child benefit or tax credits! The guy does not even look after his six kids and neither pays a fair maintenance. Jessica, are you for real?
Hang on a min he should have to pay for the kids why should he live the life of luxery while she’s struggling with her kids it takes 2 to make kids and he was the one that fucked off I am with the mother and hopes the prick gets screwed
Thank you Simon Claridge for speaking some sense amongst these terrible comments and even insults! Beyond belief!
How do you know all 6 kids are his? His new partner maybe very well off but why the hell should she contribute. If he has nil income then so how the f*** can he pay. Let’s face it he could have shared care reducing his assessment of maintenance so may look after his kids peppa and she’s doing well to turn it down god I wish I could turn 21 per month down.
What if he was unemployed and his new wife/girlfriend is the top earner then it’s not her responsibility to provide for his kids so therefore if he does have a lavish life style then good for him. And peppa what if the mum had a lavish life style and he was in the gutter with nothing because of this company taking every penny he has I bet you wouldn’t call her would you.
Look at you all!! What if? Exactly none of you know the background!! Andrew, if you can’t help then shut that filthy mouth of yours and let the people who admin this page help her!!
If he can afford cars and a lavish lifestyle, he can afford to pay and for someone to even suggest that the poor guy does not even get tax credit is ludicrous…..I don’t see how one would mention six kids if they were not his…What annoys me the most is insults by some people to say that this woman needs to get off her butt …..as if looking after six kids were some kind of vacation…as to shared care, that’s to be seen…as I said I don’t know the precise circumstance….what I do not accept is insults and ludicrous assumptions!
This page is just a nasty nasty page looking at all the negitives about the CSA and single parents pwc but what about all the good the CSA does what all the pwc that go out to work try there dam hardest to support the kids because nrp doesn’t want to know what about the kids they wasn’t asked to be born, I agree there are pwc out there wAnting to screw the nrp but what about the number of nrp that don’t give 2 shits about the kid or the mum as long as they can live there life to its fullest with giving a shit about the child all off you that has slagged this woman off should be deeply ashamed off your selfs you don’t know her or her circumstances she might be the hardest working and most caring mum out there that is down on her luck and only wants the best for her children so,
Lizzy Fisher maybe you should see some of these comments x
Some of these comments are nothing but rude, disgusting and bullying!!! No matter what the circumstances are, children are made by a mother and father and therefore should be supported emotionally and financially by both!!! That means both sharing the cost of putting a roof over those children’s heads, heating, electricity, gas, water, food in their mouths and clothes on their backs!!! The patent with care gets the rougher deal as they are the ones who has to get be there for them 24hrs, wash, dress, take them to school, help with their homework, care for them when they are sick, support them through troubles at school, tidy up after them and the list goes on and on and on!!!! Some if you on this site need to grow up and the admin on this site need to get their spades out and shovel away the shit that is being posted on here, absolutely outrageous!!!
I see both sides as a pwc (who receives nothing) and a partner of a nrp who fought for 3 years to have direct payments taken into account causing a massive over payment to the pwc. And my children lose £ 28 per week from their tax credits as it’s used as income how on earth is it fair. If it’s his new partner that funds his lifestyle then that’s how life is. But we don’t know full facts we don’t know shared care arrangements as for the 6 kids she posted I HAVE SIX not WE
Six kids? You actually make me laugh out loud. I wish I could afford to have six children. Before I consider having a child, I consider whether I am able to support them financially – clearly this is something that never crossed your mind. The ex did well to get away from you. Why should he find your pathetic existence? I can guarantee that you don’t work – lazy, bone idle waste of air!
In reply to Kelly. I actually do work. I also did consider whether I could afford six children when my ex and I had them. I was never on benefits until he left to go off with another woman after I’d helped him build up his electrical business. Very sad when you don’t consider your children isn’t it. So before you judge get the facts. Incidentally my ex went off with a girl called Kelly not you was it? I look after my six children very well on my own but it doesn’t make it right that he pays little for them. Does anyone think of the mental anxious that the kids feel. No I doubt it. That’s why they’re selfish enough to avoid family responsibility in the first place.
Well sorry to disappoint you lot but I work damn hard I actually have two jobs. And I know for a fact my ex has been warning over £2000.00 per week. But the fact is I don’t want the money I want my kids to know he wanted to contribute for them. Sad that isn’t it that after 15 years marriage if faithfulness that I would any to he able to respect a man who was unfaithful. I also helped build up his electrical Business. But u know what. I don’t really care anymore. There’s no point. With societies views the way they are I just feel
Sorry for you and your narrow minded bigotry.
But hey thanks for the feedback it’s helped a lot. 😉