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My ex has changed his job but I need to prove it – any ideas?

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My childs father has changed his job -we do not have regular contact so he wont tell me or the CSA – I have told the CSA and have been told that I have to prove this (which I cant) another adviser told me they can check via the tax office. He has infact left HMF and for 5 months been in receipt of a army pension but was due to start his new job in April-I found out on Twitter! any advice please?

4 thoughts on “My ex has changed his job but I need to prove it – any ideas?

  1. Gonna be very honest and you aint gonna like what i say

    I am not gonna help you screw over a fellow soldier. !!!!!!

    What i will say is this. he has a responsibility to see his kids and support you is raising them. You should allow him to take part. If you refuse to allow him to take part then he wont pay because to him all you want is money. there isnt much excuse you can give to not let him take part.

    I would say try to resolve the issues no you may not end up as lovers but you are both parents it takes both of you to make him.

    However if you rely on the CSA they will take years and they like any organisation can be willfully avoided for years. So you get money eventually.

    Seriously read the stories on this sight and you will see the CSA are a complete waste of time to both sides

  2. I don’t usually like to pick sides, but I have to agree with CSA warrior.

    Your best outcome, specially for the child, is to be a parent and work it out with your ex.

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