My ex has a new job so why can’t he afford to pay?

October 1, 2013

I was just on facebook to discover my ex husband is in a lovely new job and doing a plumbing and heating course so why is the csa saying he cant afford to pay on top of that he left a debt on the flat we shared and now his and mine is waiting to be rehoused as he has medical problems they have offered us a 2 bed property and waiting to find out now

thank you


  • Adrian says:

    If he is on a heating and plumbing course he will be on a very low income untill he becomes qualified.
    Might not seem very fair but this is the csa for you. And the only ones that suffer are the kids.
    Forget trying to fight them. They will just grind you down so you feel worthless. Try and move on with your life.

  • Mrs Beckham 2 says:

    I want to know why you’re snooping on FB at what your ex is doing??

    The CSA will cause more trouble than it’s worth as the % they take is far too high, no one can afford to live having 15/20/25% of their wages lopped off for child support, in these times of financial difficulty!!
    Could you afford to be minus 15/20/25% of your income??
    Don’t know many people who could.

    I suggest writing to your ex, if you can’t talk to your ex….and say you’re willing to negotiate an affordable amount and cancel the CSA. I bet you would get a better reception and a fair affordable amount benefits all parties, you, your ex and the children!!

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