My estranged husband is threatening to stop his payments

October 28, 2013

My estranged husband has threatend to stop his csa money to buy our daughter clothers of which she has plenty of. Can he do this? Also would it be better to stop these threats, to take money as a attachment of earnings. Thank you for your help

Comments

  • Adrian says:

    Best to deal with it together and stop the threats. You may think it’s not effecting the child but your so focused on 1 thing that this can be overlooked. Give the guy a chance. Come to an amipacable arrangement which suits both of you. If it fails say after 3 months the use the csa.

  • Marcus Lasance says:

    Excellent advice from Adrian. Take your ex up on his threats. Maybe let him buy your daughter her next winter coat, school uniform or whatever. It will be good for her to see her Dad treating her for a change instead of always you! After all she doesn’t see the monthly amounts he pays, so this will be something tangible they can both enjoy. I know I did! I doubt if it will affect his CSA payments. If he stops his standing order the CSA will send him some reminders and if he doesn’t respond take the Deduction of Earnings Order route anyway, so why would you initiate it and appear to be the nasty one?

  • Gonk says:

    Talk to each other and try to come to a arrangement that keeps the CSA WELL AWAY. they are arsholes and only interested in bleeding anyone of cash who has split with partner and kids are involved, they are just a stealth tax that exploits break ups.
    Tell your husband that it makes no difference if he buys anything for the kids, he will still be expected to pay full cm, the CSA don’t care, if he don’t pay,they will force him and that will only create resentment and drive a wedge between you both and the kids suffer, just like my ex who went to the CSA, I can no longer see my daughter because of what CSA rob from me each month and I blame her for that. Instead of coming to me and sorting out a fair payment for us both and leaving me a little to spend on my daughter, but she’s a greedy money grabbing skank that is only interested in how much she can make out of me for having a daughter.
    Keep the CSA filth out of your life’s.
    Gonk

  • CSA warrior says:

    I am going to be balanced here. You are both behaving like playground bullies and its all bullshit. no he cant do that. S1 CSA act 1991 makes that clear. However you can call in the CSA the single most incompetent government body ever created. then he can avoid them and hate you. if he quits his job you get 5 per week. then what of the kid watching his family explode around him.

    Yeah you both have guns. no need to shoot each other eh?????????

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