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Learn to spell and if hes such a terrible father like you say then be greatful he is out of both your lives. Why would you even want his money?
first off she is not YOUR daughter she is both yours and your exs daughter not just yours so say OUR daughter in future it makes you sound like your just trying to grab money. yes dads should pay to help but if he is so bad, as you say y do u want anything to do with him including money the chances are with his life he has no job for the csa to take money and if he is a criminal you wont get money so its your fault for getting mixed up with him in the first place
Disagree with that!! You are not aware of the circumstances so how can you say its her fault it takes 2 to tango!! He has a responsibility to help with the costs if raising his CHILD!! Regardless if he has access or not. Judging someone when you dont know her or what shes had to do on her own its just damn right rude!!
Learn to write properly for starters. Hurt my eyes trying to make sense of that.
your lack of education evidence provided by the spelling seen above, i would say you get enough scrounging from the benefits so why do you need to rob the fathers 15 quid a month from his benefits. Cost of fags and cider gone up an you need that few quid extra is it ??
@CSAHell count your blessings he doesn’t want contact, I was
Get the beast to fuck and do it yourself with a little help from the government of course.
totally agree with emma. this woman has come on here 2 ask 4 help! and all you have done is be nasty! just because you have probably been screwed over by csa! not all single mothers ARE scrongers! most fathers pay but a few are arseholes and wnt pay 4 their kids!! as u say it takes 2 to tango!!
Why would you want to take money from an agressive, sex offender, drug taker? I would want to make sure he knew nothing of where I was and totally get rid
There’s always two sides to a story!
@ Emma N Walter..yes it does take 2 to tango Emma..but we all know it never works like that..the father pays pays pays and the mother just gets gets gets on top of all the benefits and free housing as this one I just bet gets. if it was a 2 to tango scenario then why does the mother never get means tested. if the father pays 50 % so should the “F” ing mother. I see Ian Duthies comment might sum this one up.
why would any mother want anything from a vile father as this one appears to be ? best far away from this the piece of rubbish as possible I would have thought.
gonk
Emma and Wendy – this are the low lives you have to deal with on here!
Gonk – you might pay pay pay, but my ex didnt!
Mica join the facebook group child support agencies failings for advice and support, without the name calling, the idiots in life, the chips on their shoulders, the bullies, abusive people who give no valued advice and obviously need help and thats not money!
Well after reading the other comments on hear i am totally soul destroyed by the nasty remarks to this lass . all she wants is an answer but the only ones that gave her one was the woman . ALL YOU MEN ARE JUST BITTER AND TWISTED BECAUSE YOU HAVE HAD TO PAY FOR YOUR KIDS . IF U DID NOT WANT KIDS THEN YOU SHOULD OF USED SOMETHING, i know some guys are really good dads but most of you are so twisted its unreal . I have 4 kids and iv worked full time for my self (and have never asked for 1 p off the state) all their lives oldest one being 23 . down to 12 . . we have NEVER HAD 1 HOLIDAY and iv spent £489.68p on phone calls to C.S.A. over the last 10 years and im still waiting for my money . but as all parents with care should do the same make their nrp pay 50% as the chil/children are both of yours . NEVER STOP ANY PARENT SEEING HIS KIDS UNLESS HES a nasty sod , a drunk,a drug user,or just a lazy bastard that cant be bothered to work or JUST LIKE THE MEN ON THIS COMMENT MOANING SAD AND VERY RUDE .AND ROSS,IAIN AND STUART LEAVE THE GIRL ALONE RE HER SPELLING FFS NO ONE PERFECT NOT EVEN U .AND TO THE LASS THAT ASKED THIS . MY ADVICE TO YOU IS RUN AND DOT STOP AND NEVER LOOK BK HUN AS HES NEVER GOING TO BE A PROPER DAD TO UR DAUGHTER AND DO U REALLY WANT THAT LOW LIFE IN HER LIFE how do u think she will feel when shes 4/5 and hes their at the school gates screaming at you and when shes laying in bed hiding under the duvet in fear cos hes smashing up your home in temper or stealing her stuff for his drugs . be happy and stay away from him and raise your daughter your self
As usual the man hater Karen pops up on this posting..hi Karen
And to working mum…you talk utter bollocks .WHERE THE FUCK DO YOU GET OFF ON SAYING ” IF YOU DIDN’T WANT KIDS YOU SHOULD HAVE USED SOMETHING”. how about the mothers that lied to the father about being on the pill and then getting pregnant, how about the father having a say about wanting the child instead of having no choice in the matter… The mother has a choice…if she don’t want it she can terminate, if the father don’t want it what choice does he get ? Fuck all.
What about the father who’s cheating wife runs off with his kid…her choice and not his…but he still as hell has no choice…..forced to pay.
So wind your neck in and stick to the Facebook page that the other man hater Karen keeps promoting
Gonk
@ Working mum – I take exception to your comment… I am not a man but the victim of a jealous, greedy, vindictive PWC… I totally sympathise with many of the comments made by the men on here… NOT all of them, however, for you to say something so stupid as “they are bitter and twisted because they have to pay for their children” makes me think you are a beyond ignorant!!!
These men are fighting for their rights as a father and an equal… FACT PWC get all the support for producing a baby (regardless of whether the person she had sex with wanted it or not…plenty of you PWC’s are sluts who use men) so do not come on to this website and accuse decent fathers of not wanting to support their children.
As for the OP, she does deserve support from the father of her child… when it is proven that a man is the father of a child, he should provide for it, but the amount the CSA dictate is crippling to many decent, hard WORKING men!!!
Bloody well said Sally..thank you for getting it across SOOO much better than I
Stick that where the sun don’t shine working mum.
Gonk
@working mum, get a grip, if you were actually an nrp or in the position as one, you certainly wouldn’t be spouting off about “putting something on the end of it” most men are fab dads and want to be in their kids lives, but there are 2 sides to every story, can bet money the OP is just a greedy spiteful cow who has had money but wants more and uses the CSA to her advantage, so next time you want to bitch, think about all involved especially the kids who lose out in it all when the mum wants more money and stops contact
It’s up to me to decide how I provide for my children, not some f–k muppet in an office. it has nothing to do with these idiots, who are interfering in nrp’s private lives.
If I was to turn up at a CSA office gate, stop them and say, ” I’m taking your money”, ” I’m taking money from your wages every month”, “I’m taking your house”, Do you think that they would like it?
This disgraceful shambles should be shut down asap!
@working mum..you see, its got fuck all to do with the dads bagging it before they dipped it working mum…it has EVERYTHING to do about fairness and for that YOU think we are bitter twisted.
For your information working mum, my wife and I at the time BOTH wanted our child… but had I known then that 3 yrs down the line the bitch was going to dump me use me as a ATM machine and my daughter as a cash cow. Then I would have “put something on it” as you call it.
fucking moron
Gonk
Sadie Sheen liked this on Facebook.
leave the country because social services will want to place your child for adoption.
your daughter is a bigger cash cow to them than she is to you piddling around with the CSA and after a man who from your comments is heading for prison anyway and therefore will become exempt.
they [the SS] will say you were putting youir daughter in danger/harm’s way and after they have stuffed as much legal aid cash in their pockets the family lawyers [incluidng the judge] will drop you and leave you with a huge debt.
another stupid bitter ex I suspect.