My boyfriend’s ex is not a very nice person
I’m so frustrated and angry and upset He has Three children to a woman who ran off with his brother and had children to him my fella was unbelievably hurt by this,She has now put a claim in to CSA. My fella gives his kids anything they want including love and attention games and clothes while she sits on her arse and does not work just has more kids to not work.
How can this be fair? we are trying to start off a new life to better ourselves and to not be on benefits but maybe to survive he might have to go on benefits. How can all this be fair and I want children I love them but i wouldn’t bring a child into the world without money. I’ve worked all my life and i have spent hundreds of hours working in the community it hasnt been easy either and it seems that some other woman who had an affair with her brother inlaw is wrecking my future with my boyfriend. I love my boyfriend so much too as he help me get out of a very very violent relationship so I wouldn’t leave him to pursue my dreams im just so upset i could cry. ;-(
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I just read I Hate His/Her Ex by Alex Cooper. You can get it on Amazon or other bookstores. It helped me to deal with so many issues that I had with my fiance’s ex – who I really hated!! Now, my relationship is perfect 🙂 xxx
Read ‘I Hate His/Her Ex’ By Alex Cooper. I was having loads of problems with my fiance’s ex and after reading this book, have resolved nearly all of the issues that were causing a problem in my relationship. 🙂 xx
Hi madbutlovely,
oh bless you 🙁
Have you worked out how much CSA liability is likely to be?
Link to a calculator http://www.csacalculator.dsdni.gov.uk/calc.asp – it will give you a general idea how much the weekly amount will be.
Once the agency have made contact either in writing or by phone, the case is then open. Whilst you are waiting for the calculation from the CSA, the time that passes will be included as arrears, which will need to be paid.
It may be a good idea to put the amount shown on the calculator to one side each week, then you will be in a position to clear arrears immediately.
chall ~ afairercsaforall