Moving abroad to free myself from CSA and horrid ex wife
Quick update on my post from June. Im actually moving in 3 weeks. The Ex wife is aware but actually believes that this is just an elaborate ploy of blackmail to get to see my daughter again.
She will be getting the shock of her life when the payments stop at the end of November and the huge house I am paying for her to live in is no longer affordable.
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Im expecting to get abuse from all you greedy mothers on here but TBH I do not care anymore!
I appear to have just paid for my Fat Cow of an ex wife to move into a 4 bed detatched house as a result of her withholding my 12 yr old daughter! I already have a shared residence order and this means NOTHING in the eyes of the law it would seem … my daughters mind has been thoroughly poisoned against me & my partner and I have not seen her since last August!
Well we have decided to move abroad! I will work self employed doing the same job as I am now but based in malta where that thieving, greedy excuse of a human being cannot get her filthy hands on my hard earned cash again!
The CSA will be informed of this just before we move so that they cannot chase me – if Im not working and not claiming then I cannot be assessed!
‘But you should be paying for your child …’ I hear all you money hungry women shouting … well yes! And I will. I have set up a bank account for my daughter and she will be getting a monthly payment from me of which she will receive once she has realised how evil her mother is and becomes my child again!
Is this a victory? In my eyes YES! Although I may not be able to see my child, I will be able to Not have contact somewhere nice and warm with no danger of my hard earned cash paying for my fat tw*t of an ex to eat cake!
Bring on the abuse – I really don’t care anymore! I have finally won!
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Good luck to you mate….I’ve seen first hand how CSA with a vindictive ex can destroy lives!!
Thanks this really cheered me up,
It’s nice to know there is a way out in the end 🙂
Good luck in Malta
Good luck fella, 6 years I haven’t seen my kids because of more or less the same circumstances of yours….. Malts is nice : )
Best of luck Richie.
As your daughter is 12, you might be able to keep in touch through Social Media such as Instagram or F/Book or use Skype. Keep in contact somehow, even if you do not see her. She will soon be at an age where you can arrange to see her if you return to the UK for a few days without her Mother interfering.
She will be your daughter forever and can really make her own choices once she reaches 16.
Mothers who withhold contact should be jailed.