I’ve just found out I have a 16 year old child – why should I pay now?

July 1, 2013

i found out a year ago that i have a child (an ex from 16 years ago) she wanted a DNA test i aggreed she said she wanted no money from me, she just wanted to know if i was the farther,( this child has been raised by her and another man while thinking he was the farther)i told her i want nothing to do with it as i have my own family now, and it was 16 years ago. Now i get a phone call from the CSA why should i pay for this child when it was raised by another man who thought it was his child,( what sort of wonan tells a 16 year old that the man raising him from birth is not really his dad but it is this bloke who wants nothing to do with

Comments

  • Adrian says:

    It’s your child no matter which ya you cut it. Simple you do the crime you do the time. Nrp should pay for there child. No matter what you or your ex agreed years ago

  • Pet says:

    Adrian do you work for the CSA by any chance

  • Lisa says:

    @ adrian, wind your neck in knobhead, after 16 yrs she needs the guys money, maybe she should have tokd him this 16 yrs ago instead of her just demanding money, this guy is now expexted to pay yet he hasnt been wanted in the childs life, spiteful women like this should get nothing

  • Pete says:

    Adrian you don’t work for the CSA do you,

  • Sally says:

    and just to add to Lisa and Pete’s comments, the woman didn’t tell him for 16 years so SHE did the crime…. if she had been a decent, honest individual she would have done the right thing at the time and things might have turned out different… but SHE made that decision alone and should face the concequences alone….

  • Lisa says:

    Personally if that was me, I would give my job up she would get nothing, this is through principle, this woman expects to be kept after 16 years worth of lies, she is worse than CSA and that’s saying something, she should be ashamed, now there can be no bond with the child again because some 2 bit tramp opened her legs and decided she would have a hold over somebody elses life until she saw fit, its pathetic and inhumane

  • Cheryl says:

    If you father a child weather you no it or not you have a duty of care, yes you shoudl have been infored some time ago BUT its been proven this chid is yours therefore you ned ti cough up!

  • gonk says:

    Adrian…you wanker…you get on here dickhead spouting bollocks like this you are gonna get a lot of grief..you clueless dickhead….you obviously aint being screwed by these parasites or you work for the csa….stay on here and read some of the shit this monkey outfit put nrp’s through…you prick
    gonk

  • gonk says:

    dam good comment Lisa….im spitting blood at this wankers comment…grrrrrrr…clueless c**t grrrrr

  • gonk says:

    this c**t of a mother just realized from one of her mates no dought that theres money to be made from this kid…and the csa cash register rings aloud again…arseholes the lots of them.
    gonk

  • gonk says:

    @ Cheryl on July 1st, 2013 3:52 pm

    If you father a child weather you no it or not you have a duty of care, yes you shoudl have been infored some time ago BUT its been proven this chid is yours therefore you ned ti cough up!

    You c**nt……I hope that you have a partner with you now that has kids from a previous relationship that finds out that an ex from many years ago suddenly comes after him for money for kids that she wanted him to have nothing to do with.I wander then CHERYL Once it dawns on you that this ex is impacting on your life and your kids life because of the drain this bitch is having on you both…would you be spouting this shit??/ I guess not….so shut the fuck up and fuck off !!!
    Gonk

  • gonk says:

    @ Amanda Johnson
    so I dipped my wick…as you put it…meaning I did not plan my child….by your very words you suggesting it was a “one night stand” nothing to do with the person I dipped my whick in ? for your information and pathetic statement…I was under the illusion that we both wanted our baby??… Its not my fault that my ex decided “our” making a baby was “dipping my wick”..so here is another stupid c***t that aint got a clue what she talking about.
    I made a baby with what I thought was with the full blessing of its mother…had I realized its mother saw it as a man just “dipping its wick” then I would not be here now and commenting on this site…this has nothing to do with this post but your views on the subject tars us other fathers with the same brush. …so again I don’t mince my words Amanda Johnson…FUCK OFF!!!

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