I’ve finally beat the CSA
Im expecting to get abuse from all you greedy mothers on here but TBH I do not care anymore!
I appear to have just paid for my Fat Cow of an ex wife to move into a 4 bed detatched house as a result of her withholding my 12 yr old daughter! I already have a shared residence order and this means NOTHING in the eyes of the law it would seem … my daughters mind has been thoroughly poisoned against me & my partner and I have not seen her since last August!
Well we have decided to move abroad! I will work self employed doing the same job as I am now but based in malta where that thieving, greedy excuse of a human being cannot get her filthy hands on my hard earned cash again!
The CSA will be informed of this just before we move so that they cannot chase me – if Im not working and not claiming then I cannot be assessed!
‘But you should be paying for your child …’ I hear all you money hungry women shouting … well yes! And I will. I have set up a bank account for my daughter and she will be getting a monthly payment from me of which she will receive once she has realised how evil her mother is and becomes my child again!
Is this a victory? In my eyes YES! Although I may not be able to see my child, I will be able to Not have contact somewhere nice and warm with no danger of my hard earned cash paying for my fat tw*t of an ex to eat cake!
Bring on the abuse – I really don’t care anymore! I have finally won!
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We are not all greedy thanks
Fair play
I’m not greedy, greedy implies wanting far more than I already get (or got ) but when I don’t get anything I don’t believe I’m one of those ‘greedy mothers’ out there? Have to say though I don’t blame you for exercising your right to move and it’s completely understandable but I absolutely know that no one could stop me seeing my sons, nothing only being arrested. I’d set up camp, I’d follow them home from school, I’d be there everytime they opened the front door, I’d follow them to the shops…anything but I’d never stop. Sadly, you don’t sound happy and she won’t be-But she really is the evil person in this and I hope at some point you have the opportunity to settle things with your daughter.
I can’t imagine how anybody would ever want to leave him.
The CSA are there to facilitate absent parents in providing for their children. It will only take into account the money coming in and pay the resident parent whats expected and its not a load of money really is it.. My ex packed his job in to avoid maintenance. Thats disgraceful. The Csa didnt really help me they werent forceful about maintenance as theres too many others avoiding responsibilities to sort. Its a shame we need the csa to sort this out……i think to call mothers greedy is ridiculous bearing in mind they check your income and pay what theyre entitled to but in fact move abroad to avoid the system…we arent all the same.
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I know which greedy mothers you mean, my partners ex is one of them! It’s such a shame that the csa cause people to make such drastic changes to their lives. The main thing that csa need to change is that EVERYONE is means tested. Both parents means tested instead of the dads being screwed over and made to lose everything. I really hope you get to see your daughter soon.
We are on both sides of coin pay a greedy benefit freak x wife n I have just found my x n expecting payment Thursday. Not holding breath
‘CSA will only pay what’s needed’?? – Only a woman that’s never experienced their wrath would say that! .. I pay £95 a week struggling to keep the electric on in my house, working whatever hours I can so that my greedy ex-wife can sit on her arse in her free house with my kids that’s she prevents me from seeing.. I don’t go out, struggle to keep my car going, and live off poor food. She lives it up, going out, new clothes, nice car, etc.. Equality?? – I think not!
Society wonders why Dads quit their jobs and clear off?
I totally agree with everything you’ve posted on here. Even though I’m a woman, a lot of the time I’m ashamed to be one. There are certainly a lot of vile women out there!
And what is your daughter eating and being clothed with until she comes to this realisation. What if she never feels that way about her mother? Will she not get the payment until she whores herself out to your opinion? Or will she be free to judge without bribery between the parent that was there for her every day clothed her and fed her day to day and the parent who left the country but held a pot of money back for some future event?
Whatever you feel about what you were asked to pay have you a true understanding of how much it costs to raise a child, not just financially but in time and emotional energy? Have you phoned your daughter, written to her, emailed and text her so she knows you care?
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Good on ya mate..My Ex is one of those greedy bitches…….
I have four children with my ex husband and he is self employed and receives rental income from his seven bedroomed house ( I never got a penny in our divorce)yet the CSA do not take rental income into account (£3,500 per month) because he gets cash in hand and declares nothing for his work he pays nothing towards our kids! He also walked away from them and I would do anything for him to have shared care as I work nearly full time to keep a roof over our heads, food in our mouths and clothes on our back and never get a break. I love my kids with all my heart and I am lucky they are such wonderful children but all children need parents. The CSA have not managed to get a penny off my ex !!!
Not all mothers get money I have a wanker of ex husband that does not support his kids I’m the one working my backside off keeping a roof over our heads clothing my kids feeding them along with everything else 6kids need Whilst he does way he wants holidays new clothes car don’t tar us all the same
That’s awful Karen! That is so unfair…however in the long run he will be the one who misses out, not you. You will always have the love from your kids, grandkids and he will have nothing. Xxx
put yourself in the shoes of this man he pays for his child and wants to be a part of her life….. However her mother is happy to take the money but is refusing to allow their child her father!! This man has shared residency so this shows he has and wants to be more than just a bank account for his daughter!! so if he wants to withhold money in an account until his daughter is of full understanding of the situation then who are we to judge?? I for one see the point if what this man is saying and I actually agree! My son’s dad should pay me a lot more than he does but so he can afford to live I take no where near what I should and he has the opportunity to see his son as he pleases I have never stopped him, just a shame he don’t feel the passion about his son as this man does about his daughter, good luck.
I’ve had my son full time for 16 years, never received a penny from his mother, CSA was never interested in chasing her either
Oh yes I totally agree, the kids have unconditional love for him which I’m glad about. He misses out on the most amazing things they do and achieve in their lives which makes everything I do worth it but some days it’s hard !!!!
Personally I don’t see that as winning. You have given up on your daughter to feed your hate of your wife. It doesn’t matter how much money you put in a bank account monthly as by the time your daughter will get to see it she will despise you for your attitude and actions. Good luck in Malta mate I think your wife and daughter have had a lucky escape and now they can love a free live without you in it 🙂
it is greedy i had my kids 50 50 n then had it all stopped so she should get csa money yet the kids n dad miss out. the kids hav now been posioned against me .yes some fathers dont give a shit but most do n get punished
I don’t think it’s right to claim everyone who uses the CSA are money grabbers As that’s not true it I believe a lot are
it is greedy i had my kids 50 50 n then had it all stopped so she should get csa money yet the kids n dad miss out. the kids hav now been posioned against me .yes some fathers dont give a shit but most do n get punished. women who say csa is not alot really i pay 300 odd pound it doesnt cost over 600(when u add exs half) pound a month for kids healthy meals dont cost alot to make clothes r not every month
how u work that out i agree with not cause of being a man but thru the heartache n lose of my two children i havnt seen for five years but bfor that had them 50 50 i still want them 50 50 but cause of csa i lost my kids .hes not losin out goin abroad cause of greed hes already lost the most precious thing he had
best thing ive seen off a woman n great to c
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