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Stop relieing on it for a start
Gosh I wish I even got CSA let alone rely on it for Xmas presents!!! If I got CSA it would go towards buying my children’s shoes, clothes and food.
Don’t rely on hand outs!! FFS real people work and earn there own money for Xmas and all other times of the year!! What sort of example is trying to get handouts setting for the youth of today?????
OMG HOW SELFISH, if your child had anymore of relationship with his dad like there should be, u would know why he isn’t paying at the moment. Especially as he has always paid before.
It’s due to self centered selfish mother like you two years ago we lost our family home just before Chrismas. As CSA took 40% of my husbands wages from his wages, leaving us month after month unable to pay our rent. So two young children and us were made homeless.
He is entitled to a life and home too, not buy your Christmas luxuries.
if its extra cash your after, this indicates you dont need it,another case of the pwc being vindictive and using the csa as a weapon.
I think some are being a bit harsh on here, you don’t know peoples full stories yet are very judgemental . Obviously csa money shouldn’t be relied on but regardless, as long as money is spent on the child why should it matter if its for some Christmas presents for the kid , surely that is both parents responsibility too it’s not just food clothes it’s birthdays and Christmas too, it takes two to make a child so it should be two that pay for things In general
u should neva relly on it ppl loss there jobs , take ill and really the money should be used for the up keep of ur child /children not to buy christmas presents ,,
This isn’t the csa….your best bet is to ring them and see what is happening, could be that your ex has had a change of circumstances or csa holding onto your money!
Csa money is supposed to help keep kids out of POVERTY!!!! Christmas is a luxury is it not and Karen you are rite it takes 2 to make a baby but it seems it only takes 2 when it suits just like my ex wants me to pay for my daughter but doesn’t want me to have any contact with her!
Omg this just infuriates me.. Yes your entitled to expect your ex to pay for the up keep of his child but honestly saying you want the mo ey for christmas is maddening.. If you get the money are you going to inform the child that its thanks Daddy or be selfish and take credit for yourself. My children won’t be getting a christmas this year coz by doing the right thing and informing the CSA that my husband and I had a baby recently his ex now gets more money., and not because he earns more money but because of my childrens child tax credits!! Whilst your enjoying your christmas remember there are some of us struggling to put a roof over our heads and feed our children because of the CSA!!!
I would never go to csa to get money, I don’t get any at all from my sons dad n don’t want it!!but the bit I don’t get is how can the csa take one child’s tax credits to giv to another??? That’s really not right!!
Karen the money we pay for my husbands son is towards his upkeep like clothes, food, gas electric and water. If she wants to buy him christmas presents then it should be from her income support, child tax and child benefit money. Coz im sure she wouldn’t put my husbands name on any of them. We buy him his own presents from us!!
what about the nrp’s that are screwed relentlessly by this vermin and are on breadline because of greedy a pwc who sees the ex as just an income and the kids as cash cows. what about his xmas? will he have one ? We could all do with extra cash at Christmas but not all so lucky to have an ex to milk for it. Not saying fathers shouldn’t support their kids but the way this vermin treat us and the attitude of a lot of mothers makes me sick. what were you hoping to spend his money on…his kid/s I hope and nothing but his kid/s
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