It’s wrong that I’m made to pay for a child I’m not allowed to see
So my ex partner trapped me into a child(would spit the pill down the toilet). I stayed with her after I seen this as I wanted to be a part of my daughters life, it got unbearable and we broke up before my daughter was born. I kept contact with my ex expecting her to keep me involved, I wasn’t allowed to be there for anything including the birth of my child. I was able to see my daughter for the first few months, but it was under the watchful eye of my ex and her family. She got abusive towards me, then decided that non of my family was to have anything to do with my daughter and i was only allowed to go to her house on my own, so it was just the two of us. I’m not on the birth certificate and I’m not allowed contact anymore. She also changed her number so I couldn’t get in touch. I am also lead to believe she has now moved. I have had a DNA test too. I pay £300+ for a child I’m not allowed to see, it’s wrong.
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Where to start.so much to say.here goes..many guys have been wronged over the years.fleeced to the point of starvation..losing there homes..being seen as skinflints when they do eventually see there kids..but have no funds left to take out kids on a day out..the people that dodge paying and bought to book..as for us guys who want to pay the money should go into a savings account for when the kids get older to give them a good start.not given to the mother on benefits who lies.and moves in someone on a good wage.and gets csa money as well and goes on foreign holidays just to rub it in a bit more.i have spent years trying to see my kids to no avail..even though they are adults now you can see they are not interested my heart goes out to the wronged fathers and someone needs to put this farce wright
I am in the same situation. The imbalance between the financial aspects and the contact aspects is appalling. I have seen my daughter only for 3hrs in 7 years. Yet pay regularly £500+ per month.