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It’s driving me crazy not seeing my kid
Hi every one I have a son that is now 2 coming up 3 feb I have not seen him for 8months my ex got pissed of because I found a girl that treated me right.
My ex was letting me see him when she wanted then I was not aloud to bring him down to my mums and family.
It’s all ways been her way or the hi way she change her number so I could not talk to him send me videos of my son telling me he don’t want to talk to daddy and mugging me if in network.
What do I do and I pay for him but still can’t see him it’s driving me crazy please help.
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That just wrong by any means. Don’t know why you have waited this long any way. Should have been a few weeks at the most and have had yourself down at a lawyer’s getting it sorted out.
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I know ur right but like a mug had hope that it would all change but I was wrong to find out yesterday she is having a Babie agen with someone else
Unfortunately, the CSA has nothing to do with contact. It’s easy to say you should get a solicitor and go to court to get access but, I know that she can break the court order as many times as she likes and nothing will happen to her. If anyone else broke a court order, they’d be punished. Not the PWC though, they can do what the fuck they like. It drives me insane, equal parental responsibilities? Bollocks!! The mother can do what the hell she likes, whether it’s in the child’s best interests or not, while the child and father suffer. Makes me so angry!!
Sounds like my situation amd ove got a court order in place for saturday contact but not seen him for 3 months because of her controlling ways. I got into debt taking her to court and cant afford to go back and feel I dont have a leg to stand on and paying csa money that I cant afford so live a ppverish life with my 2 girls 🙁
It’s been over 4 years since my bf – NRP has had any contact with his 2 children. She – PWC has wiped him out of the children’s lives, yet still continues to use him as a cash point via the CSA. He has spent over £3500 trying to gain access to no avail. Seemingly she – the PWC can emotionally abuse the kids by poisoning them again their father to the point of putting them on the phone saying things like “if you go to a solicitor I never want to see you again” and “I just don’t want to see you” and hanging up the phone..that was the last call…Dec 2010. All numbers have been changed, b’day cards returned unopened in the post. What a cruel world my bf lives in when all he wants to do is be a father to his kids he loves and misses every minute of every day. One suicide attempt…and I am too affected as it affects my life as a NRPP. Watching the man I love destroyed by a vindictive woman and a corrupt unfair, unjust CSA!
I have been battling in court for a while now too see my son and its still on going i got stopped for no reason what so ever only ro hurt me my son is nearly 3 now he get excited every time he sees me comes running out the door needless to say he doesnt do that for his mother but i have him 2 nights aweek and half a day sunday but when you break it down because of nursery i have him 5 days a week and more hours than his mother but still im made to pay child maintenace im in thousands of pounds in debt going to court to gain access or more access to my son for csa to start demanding i pay a woman to look after her own child just so she can have money because that money wont get spent on my son laws need to change i provide 5 days a week for my son so why cant she do the same where is the justice