Is proof of payment satisfactory to the CSA?

September 28, 2015

I’ve been with my partner for almost a year and he has 3 young children. All the time we’ve been together I know he has paid his ex weekly her maintenance. He missed 2 weeks payment because of losing his job and didn’t pay her another time because we had taken the kids on holiday for a week so didn’t see why he had to pay her when we were providing for them for that entire week!

Ok so now he has received a call from the csa saying he hasn’t made any payments, he has bee  doing so and can get proof from his bank that these payments are being made. Will the csa carry on with this or will they leave it if he provides proof? Personally I am furious with her and need all the help we can just so she only gets the money that the children deserve and not so she can go spend it on mac make up and nights out!!


  • Gonk says:

    This is typical of a lot of the skank mothers…..yes I use the word skank, because the ones that carry on like this are skanks. They abuse the system because they know they can and without any questions from the bastards at the csa. In fact, the bastards will believe anything the mother says. The skanks know this so take the piss beyond believe.
    It fucks me off that I have no control or say in how £300 of my wages legally robbed each month from me, is spent. I know that it’s not spent on my daughter, instead, just tops up my full time working skank ex and her full time working partners salaries. The pair of them are laughing their asses off at me. It’s a hard pill to swallow knowing your wife leaves you because there’s nothing she wants from me anymore….lol…..except my money, takes my daughter with her for another man to raise and play dad to her, and my reward for this is topping up their fucking household each month….fucking wrong, so fucking wrong

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