I’m so sick of telling the CSA how to do their jobs
Last August the NRP decided to stop making regular payments and a detachment of earnings order was attached to his employer. Since then I have been in hell with the CSA.
First of all the employer didn’t pay, then by Christmas id received the back payments but every month after that there was arrears, wrong payments and late payments, then in February there was nothing, I have called the CSA almost daily and spoken to so many different people, they have reorg the department more times than I have changed my knickers!
I now get nothing and am being assured that the criminal compliance team are looking into the case. my ex left the employer on the 22nd June this year and they owe me more than £1500 which they have apparently taken from my ex’s wages. i’m so sick of calling the csa to tell them how to do their job and explain my case over and over again, i’ve complained on their website and have had nothing back from them, I cant take this anymore, just complete incompetence.
I have called them again today and was told that the case worker spoke to the employer on the 13th and that the original documentation was destroyed and that it would take a while to sort out the payments, I thought the cc team were meant to seek payment not seek to feel sorry for them!
so now i’m stuck, can I do anymore, can I take csa to court, can I do anything to make them stand up and pay attention, please please help, I am desperate 🙁
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RT @CSAHell: I’m so sick of telling the CSA how to do their jobs: Last August the NRP decided to stop making regular … http://t.co/UesUFT…
Get a job
Hahaha it’s great when the shit happens the other way round also that’s what women get and deserve all they get, women think by going to the CSA they will get more money as the majority of women are scamming cows, and go and get a job and stop relying on you ex to support you life when he should only be supporting your kids and not your lifestyle.
If it’s the employers that owe the money (not your ex) then perhaps you could both get together and fight it? The only way is to continue to hound them I’m afraid.
I think the lesson here is that it would be better for you to work out maintenance payments with your ex privately (and make sure you give him sufficient proof of payments so he can trust you) and keep the CSA well out of it.
Trust it to be 2 guys who assumes… I figure you too dont have ur kids full time with those smart arse comments!!. Some mums cant work and spend 24 hours looking after her ill children while the arseholes of men spend mote time with their stepdaughter and giving them expensive gifts life iPads and they wonder why 2 young children disown them. Too many man aren’t paying for their kids so why dont u 2 gentlemen get off ur high horses and take ur nasty comments elsewhere to people who give a Damn.come back and comment when you have your children full time 🙂
Maybe these two gentleman would have there kids full time if it wasn’t for the greedy mums stopping them from seeing the kids. Csa is a messed up company who screw up blokes lives while the women live the life of luxury.
It’s sounds to me ur changing ur knickers far to many times maybe if u put a stop to that then u might have a bit cash to support ur child
What comes around……goes around.
I have a job, I also have no contact with their dad, he was more interested in drugs and hitting woman than his children, when someone is violent and may pose a risk to his children then there is no way I can arrange something. Id like to say that some of the above views are very closed minded. He had every opportunity to sort himself out and never did.
I was seeking constructive advice but obviously the level of intelligence from some people here is low!
Thanks for your help
And here is another classic example of an author suddenly mentioning the ex being an arsehole and woman beater only after negative responses to her posting. As I said before…you women should explain in detail about the ex and your situation in FULL then maybe people would be more sympathetic and understanding. I for sure am sympathetic and understanding only after reading your reply to all the abuse you got. Had you not replied. I would have said to you ” here’s my help and advise….get a job”
As for Claire Connolly …YOU TALK BOLLOCKS woman….most NRP’s are a million miles away from how you describe us you idiot….bring on more of your bollocks comments like that and I be ready to reply. People like you anger the fuck out of me with your image of fathers that have been dumped in the trash because there whore ex decides she don’t want him around anymore because she’s bored and so opens her legs for some other bloke then fucks off and takes the fathers child with her but expects him to pay for the privilege PMSL, no morals at all,just scroungers who believe the world owes them a life and men are just sperm banks, cash machines and the kids they father are cash cows. Bring it on claire Connolly
Gonk
On another note Jo…..you think it’s morally ok to take money from such an awful man. This is so typical as well of so many women who have no time for the ex, despise them, wants absolutely nothing to do with them or want anything from them….exept……yes…MONEY. Let’s put it another way. If the boot was on the other foot in my situation and I had left my wife for another woman,taken her child away from her or she was an abusive mother ? I for sure would not go after her for money. NEVER because I have morals and wouldn’t want ANYTHING to do with her anymore and certainly not money. But you women feel its ok to come after the father for cash despite whatever he’s done wrong or what you have done wrong. It’s a one way street.
Gonk
Well done Claire Connolly,
Jo, unfortunately these are the low lives you have to put up with on this site!
Please join the facebook group child support agencies failings for advice and support without abuse, name calling, or pathetic stupid comments! Good Luck.
PMSL
The man hater is back,couldn’t resist…nice to hear from you Karen. See this posting raises you from your pit. None relating to NRP’s ever does lol.
Lots of love and kisses
Gonk
It’s amazing Karen can call some people pathetic and low life’s lol.
What does your remarks tell people about what kind of person you are Karen…certainly not a nice one…a hard stone faced cold cow springs to my mind.
Interesting how she refers to me as a low life when all I ever did was provide for my daughter and give her along with her mother a decent home,love them both with all my heart,never abusive either physically or mentally to my ex. But she walks after just 9 months married after a 8 yr partnership, takes my then 3 yr old daughter away and breaks my heart. And the then turns the knife in the wound by expecting me to pay for the privilege.
So I guess I should be tared and feathered and branded as a low life by the man hater Karen and all because I tried to be a good father and husband.
Tell me man hater…does this Facebook site you keep banging on about give help and support and advise to NRP’s ?…..Mmmmmmm lol
Gonk
Karen
It takes nasty stone faced cold man hater mares like you to make angry, bitter,pathetic,low life men like me.
So I count us as peas out the same stinking pot and makes us even.We should get together and celebrate it lol
Gonk
I can see why you dont have access! I didnt leave a message to have a slanging match. I thought I might get some genuine advice. Hoping there are moderators here that can delete this thread as I really dont think thecomments from the trolls are aappropriate.
Thanks all
Last word on this Jo
I don’t consider myself a troll…just react to certain individuals on here who only comment or offer advise to pwc.
She knows who she is and I think we at least understand each,less can be said perhaps to any others on here that she hacks off and may get a similar negative reply but not from me any more…she will never understand the reason why fathers on here moan and groan about this vile agency and supporters of it like her. Can never get across to her and people like her, the most of us are hard working genuine dads who have no issue with paying for their kids.we have an issue with how it’s taken and how unfair and biased in favour of the pwc. It’s open to disgusting abuse by pwc
Gonk
These gentlemen Put urself in the pwc shoes!
If u have ur children 24/7, have to hold down a job or 2 to provide for ur kids where the nrp does fuck all for their children. U fight out of principle. At the end of the day in my case i fought for principle i was stuggling to make ends meet, my child saw his father for a measley 6 hours (his choice) my child was suffering out it all and his father gets let off scott free and refused to pay for his child. I had enough and gave up with csa, closed the case and to this day i receive fuck all.
I have been both an PWC and an NRP, and on both sides, the CSA were crap!
They came after me straight away, hounding me at work and trying to at home. Soon got that stopped. Then I made a counter claim for the child with me, Guess what…………nil assessment for her as an NRP. It took me over two years to get any money from her, and then she got caught fiddling her tax credits….wha, waah! She had to pay it all back, but should have been had up in court!
One rule for women, different rules for blokes!