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I’m begging for help
Lost my house due to csa taking over third of my wages begged for help told by the csa we can do anything we want collapsed was forced on the sick with just ssp now that’s run out getting letters demanding money or face court all I have now is nothing
I need help im homeless soon ansd since march 2013 I have asked local council police social workers cab begged the csa all has just turned tere back on me ive worked since leaving school never asked for help before as for my x partner her last words were you will neversee the children again and since 2002 till today never have seen them she regular puts them in rest bite homes
All I want is a chance now to stand on my feet again begged for help before so please help
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I feel so sad and helpless for you !
Just try and rebuild yourself cause one day you will get to see the children , don’t give up xx
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CSA should be disgusted with themselves for the way they treat the NRP. I really hope you find some help, im just sorry there is nothing i can do to help you. Paying for your child should never affect your life in a negative way like this. It’s disgraceful.
My friend was in a similar situation and it was very stressful for well over a year he never felt so lost as he had a doe on his wages for a huge amount. when you fall you get back up and dust your self down he kept calling the csa letting them know he was recording the call and to put it in hi notes that all calls are recorded. Things started to change for him he got his payments reduced and for a whole year they didn’t care try it it may help its a joke how the system is hope youbget it sorted as seen what it done to my friend
Disgusting! And I’ve seen so many friends destroyed by this diabolical system, myself included! Dig your heels in mate and be strong, your kids will know one day what you have been through and respect you for your grit and resilience!
hi I hope yhis advice will hel. first DONT LOSE HOPE. there is always hope. however I am aware that fine words butter no parsnips.
so to the point. firstly visit your docter. the word is depression. dont be shy about it the doctor can open many doors including assisting in a claim for disability whicch helps finacially.
if you do not have an address visit your council hoemless section. the council willhave a duty to house you under the mental health act, what this means is a b and b for a while, but this will be your base for a a scrap with the ex.
your scrap start with locating your child. once you have done this visit your local county court office family section and ask for the paperworkfor a contact order.
as your not working it costs u nothing. fill out the form. ( the instructions are on the form.) this starts your court case. she may not attend asshe seems ignorant. in which case carry on without her. if she does attend consider it a bonus and dont get emotional ie angry. there are almost no grounds for the court to refuse you a contact order.
Once the order is granted its the begining of the end for her. refusing to comlpy with a court order is a crimminal offence. so to assist your understanding google contempt of court. in extreme cases the courts can and have reversed the court order in favour of the dad, so the mother is in your shoes.
the truth is the law states that a child has a right to see its parents. not the otherway round. so you are protecting the right of the child. so you cant actually lose the case unless you have abused your child.
as a word of warning your ex will respond usually with lies and bullshit. dont be distracted by this the courts have heard it all before. and bullshit does not change the law or sway judges.
your best weapons are information and patience
good luck if you can let us all know how it goesgreat. and if you get stuck or need to vent off we are all here.